Post by sweetheer on Feb 16, 2009 8:16:28 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
Respected Imam Sb,
I am a new user of this forum. Infact i have faced the similar problem which faced by many brothers & sisiters who get involved someone and want to get married with them sincerely. I also like a guy from last two and half year. He belongs to a Sunni Syed family, as i belong to an arraiyn family. He proposed me and later on i accepted his proposal. In the mean time there were some misunderstandings raised between us and he getted angry and said that he broke the relation. After the clarifications from my side, he started to continue. Few months back he said that ask (my parents) for the proposal of him. I told my parents they getted angry at first but now they said that that guy must have to come to them and ask for my hand from them. But this critical situation is that the guy whome i want to marry is set back. He said that he asked from his parents but they are not agree for this so his own decision is same as his parents said. Imam Sb, this is very troubling situation for me cus may family knows about it so now if i said to them that he set back and dont want to marry with me its would be really shameful for me. As i want to marry him sincerely my mind doesnot accept anybody else as my husband. Imam sb, I really have a great need of your guideness and pray in this matter. My parents asked me again n again that when he will send his parents to ask my hand from my parents. Please Imam sb tell me some powerfull wazifah that he (the person whome i want to marry) come to me back by himself and his parents also get agree for me and they come to ask my hand from my parents very soon. Please also tell me can i read the specific dua of Hazrat Dawood alayhis 'salam for this. I am praying 5 times prayers and also Wird of Asma-e-Elahi.
Looking forward to ur early response cus i am troubling in mental depression.
Jazak Allah Khair!
Allah Hafiz
Respected Imam Sb,
I am a new user of this forum. Infact i have faced the similar problem which faced by many brothers & sisiters who get involved someone and want to get married with them sincerely. I also like a guy from last two and half year. He belongs to a Sunni Syed family, as i belong to an arraiyn family. He proposed me and later on i accepted his proposal. In the mean time there were some misunderstandings raised between us and he getted angry and said that he broke the relation. After the clarifications from my side, he started to continue. Few months back he said that ask (my parents) for the proposal of him. I told my parents they getted angry at first but now they said that that guy must have to come to them and ask for my hand from them. But this critical situation is that the guy whome i want to marry is set back. He said that he asked from his parents but they are not agree for this so his own decision is same as his parents said. Imam Sb, this is very troubling situation for me cus may family knows about it so now if i said to them that he set back and dont want to marry with me its would be really shameful for me. As i want to marry him sincerely my mind doesnot accept anybody else as my husband. Imam sb, I really have a great need of your guideness and pray in this matter. My parents asked me again n again that when he will send his parents to ask my hand from my parents. Please Imam sb tell me some powerfull wazifah that he (the person whome i want to marry) come to me back by himself and his parents also get agree for me and they come to ask my hand from my parents very soon. Please also tell me can i read the specific dua of Hazrat Dawood alayhis 'salam for this. I am praying 5 times prayers and also Wird of Asma-e-Elahi.
Looking forward to ur early response cus i am troubling in mental depression.
Jazak Allah Khair!
Allah Hafiz