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Post by shan on Jan 31, 2009 15:19:35 GMT
i had a serious affair with a boy(cousin) for about 5 years n we also wanted to get married to each other.
However our affair ended because he was not bold enough to talk to his guardians and hence we had a fight and he broke off from me. i told everything to my family.His mother from the very beginning wanted me as his bride.Now his family is ready and mine too but he says he is not interested n doesn't want to marry me.
please i need your help because i really love him,want him back n want to get married only to him.
please tell me any wazaif so that his heart changes and starts loving me again and agrees to marriage.
Wassalam
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Post by Imam on May 17, 2009 12:51:19 GMT
Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem
Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
All Praise be to Allah who is the Lord of the Worlds, and may Endless Blessings be showered upon His Most Beloved, and Final Messenger of Islam, Hadrat Muhammad Mustafa (Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa aalihi wa Sallam)
Jazak'Allah for your question.
Shan, what I think you need to do, is be careful. First things come first, as having affairs is not one of them.
Alright, you had an affair, but did you forget, that what you had first started would never come to an end, or did you think that if you made the right move it would have been better for you.
What you should do, is ask for forgiveness from Allah the Almighty, by truly repenting in your heart, by praying 5 times salah, making du'a, astaghfar, durud sharif, recitation of the Qur'an, and changing your lifestyle.
Once this is in place, then as long as you do not do anything you have to confess to, then insha'Allah, Allah the Almighty will help you in many better ways. More ways than you desire. For life, wealth, health, living, caring, and everything else that you may need later in life. Loving someone, is not the only desire people have in life, there are many other things.
I hope this helps.
Wallahu A'lamu Biththawaab
M. Waseem Ashrafi
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