I am 28 years of age and really want to get married, the person I want to marry is a very kind and good man, my parents want me to marry some one in Pakistan who I know nothing about. Please can you give me a dua that will remedy this situation and make this man marry me and ask my parents for my hand in marriage. I really want to get married and have a baby.
All Praise be to Allah who is the Lord of the Worlds, and may Endless Blessings be showered upon His Most Beloved, and Final Messenger of Islam, Hadrat Muhammad Mustafa (Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa aalihi wa Sallam)
To remedy your situation would be to go against the will of your parents, and to go against the will of your parents would be to go against the will of Allah the Almighty.
What you should do if you want to marry this person, is to see if your parents agree. The best person to talk to is your mum. If she agrees, then she may be able to convince your dad. If she doesnt, then you must try to accept what is ordained for you, and be grateful for that, as this temporary love you have for this man will erase once you have been fully married.
Accordingly, why try to marry someone, or get him to marry you, when your parents will disagree (if that is the case). This will give me a hard time in trying to convince not only the person you want to marry, but also your mum and dad, and anyone else who opposes you getting married to this man.
Please be patient, and try to adhere to your parents wishes, as this is a great way to please Allah the Almighty, His Beloved Messenger Salla Allahu 'alayhi wa Sallam, and your own parents.
What is better, pleasing them, or pleasing yourself.
Please do have some time to think, and when you have, do not hesitate to post back to let me know of how you have progressed.
Jazak'Allah for your question.
Wallahu A'lamu Biththawaab
M. Waseem Ashrafi
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