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Post by aislamic on Aug 30, 2010 15:45:24 GMT
As'salamu alaykum,
I am in the midst of a problem with my wife. We are not yet living together as it was just a Nikkah; however, we had been communicating well on the phone for a long time. We had a love marriage and I still love her alot. However due to some of my own frustrations, arguments heated up on the phone and I ended up giving her one tilaaq (only once, i.e. I did not divorce her). Following which, we stopped talking. My parents tried talking to her parents about resolving the issue however her parents refused and did not want to reconcile. I spoke to her after that and she told me that it is her own decision and that she does not want to be with me anymore.
This has caused great agony and pain in my life as I really truly loved her, which is why we got married. I am in need of alot of duas and an extremely powerful wazifa that will help solve this problem and re-unite the two of us and save my marriage.
May Allah Subhanwa'atala give you jazaa for your duas and help.
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Post by fariana on Aug 30, 2010 20:45:06 GMT
Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem !!! Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu wa magfiratuhu !!! Dear Brother !!! May you find help here !!!! www.scribd.com/doc/17627/The-Prophets-WazaifI have send you a private message have you watch it ?? IT is VERY USEFUL !!! Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu !!! This seems very useful for your problem : FA‘IN TAWALLAW FAQUL HASBIYAL-LAAHU LAA ILAAHA ILLAA HUU. `ALAYHI TAWAKKALTU WAHUWA RABBUL `ARSHIL `AZIIM.” And if you (or the situation) were to turn (for the worse) then proclaim: “Allah suffices me. There is no god but he. Upon Him is my faith (trust) and He alone is the lord of the mighty throne. Significance: This verse should be recited 7 times morning and evening daily, and if possible 100 times daily. One who does this shall be protected from all the troubles of this world and the world hereafter.Subhanallah !!! Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu !!!
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Post by aislamic on Sept 2, 2010 4:14:02 GMT
Jazak'Allah kher.
I will start praying this one INSHALLAH. May Allah Subhana'wa ta'ala give you jazaa.
Continued help, duas and wazifas will be greatly appreciated.
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Post by aislamic on Sept 14, 2010 14:58:25 GMT
Dearest Brothers and Sisters in Islam,
I am still in need of your duas and help. Please send any powerful wazaifs that you may have. May Allah Subhana wa ta'ala give you great Jaza.
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Post by Bint e Attar on Sept 14, 2010 16:00:01 GMT
Dearest Brothers and Sisters in Islam, I am still in need of your duas and help. Please send any powerful wazaifs that you may have. May Allah Subhana wa ta'ala give you great Jaza. Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa BarakatuhuBrother.. u can try out this link.. ask them for a wazaif.. www.dawateislami.net/rohani/ilaaj InshaAllah Azwajal.. they will give u a wazaif related to ur situation.. May Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala ease ur problems with the sadqah of Rasool e Akram Salla Allahu 'alayhi wa Sallam.. Ameen be-jaa-hin-Nabiyal Ameen Sallal Laahu Alayhi Wa Sallam
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Post by aislamic on Sept 15, 2010 2:02:44 GMT
Jazak'Allah kher.
Any other help will be greatly appreciated. May Allah Subhana wa ta'ala give you all jazaa.
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Post by Sayyedah 777 on Sept 15, 2010 6:32:23 GMT
Jazak'Allah kher. Any other help will be greatly appreciated. May Allah Subhana wa ta'ala give you all jazaa. Auzu Billaahi Minash Shaitaanir Rajim Bismillahir Rahmaanir Raheem
Assalaatu Wassalaamu Alayka Ya Rasoolallah Sallal Laahu Ta'ala Alayhi Wa Aalihi Wa Sallam
Assalaamu Alaykum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakaatuhu
Brother the wazifa that i am typing here is too much powerful to get maximum Love of ones Husband or wife(the love between spouses), I advice you to read it daily 1 time, After Ishaa or as the Nafli Salaah prescribed timings like After Zoharr or Maghrib,,,,and see it marvelous results,,,,,,, Insha Allah Azzawajal.
Necessary note:
These wazaif have positive effects , if the problems are genuine and legal and if these are used for any type of wrong purposes, then it has reverse effects on the situation..and can be hamrful for such person in many ways.so be very clear and aware before going to use it.and its better to consult with any Imam ,because your problem is complicated and you should must have to consult , what shari'ah says, particularly regarding your problem of 1 divorce.Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala knows very well our intentions and Niyyats(matter of hearts).
The wife/husbnad should recite a 2 rakat Nafil salaat with the intention of creating love betwen her/him and her hubby /his wife specially for Allah Paak ,and in each Rakat after reciting surah al Fatihah, Recite :
verse 7 of al Mumtahinah 7 times in each Rakaat as following:
60:7 It may be that Allah will grant love (and friendship) between you and those whom ye (now) hold as enemies. For Allah has power (over all things); And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful. AAasa Allahu an yajAAalabaynakum wabayna allatheena AAadaytum minhummawaddatan waAllahu qadeerun waAllahughafoorun raheemun.
then after salaam recite this following Darood Paak 70 times:
www.sunnimedia.co.uk/media/forums/matri214 Darood.gif[/IMG] O Allah, send blessings on Muhammad and on the progeny of Muhammad, as many asthose who beseech You to send blessings on him. ALLAAHUMMA S'ALLI A'LAA MUH'AMMADIN WA AALI MUHAMMADIN BI-A'DADI MAN S'ALLI A'LAYHI. After that recite following Dua 70 times:O my Allah, let (mention husband’s name) heart grow soft and gentle just as You melt the iron for Dawud, peace be on him, and make him mild and yielding to me just as You made the winds tractable and submissive to Sulayman son of Dawud, peace be on both of them, and put affection between us just as You put love between Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be on him and on his children) and Khadijah (blessings of Allah be on her), and between Ali (peace be on him) and Fatimah Zahra, blessings of Allah be on her, O the most beneficent. ALLAAHUMMA LAYYIN QALBA (mention husband's name) KAMAA LAYYANTAL H'ADEEDA LIDAAWOODA A'LAYHIS SALAAMU WA SAKHKHIR LEE KAMAA SAKHKHARTAR REEH'A LISULAYMAANABNI DAAWOODA A'LAYHIM AS SALAAMU WA ALLIF BAYNANAA KAMAA ALLAFTA BAYNA MUHAMMADAN S'ALLALLAAHU A'LAYHI WA AALIHEE WA SALLAM WA KHADEEJAH WA A'LAYHI WA AALIHEE WA SALLAM WA KHADEEJAH WA A'LIYYIN A'LAYHIS SALAAMU WA FATIMATAZ ZAHRAA-I S'ALAWAATULLAAHI A'LAYHAA YAA ARH'AAMAR RAAHIMEEN .Insha Allah Azzawajal With the Blessed Waseelah Of Habib Pak Sallal Laahu Ta'ala Alayhi Wa Aalihi Wa Sallam her problem will be solved guaranteed 100 % . Aameen Ya Rabbal Aalmin , Ya Mjeebuddawaat , Ya Samiud-dua,Wa Ya Ahamarrahimin. Sallu Alal Habib Salli Ala Muhammad Sallal Laahu Ta'ala Alayhi Wa Sallam. and onething when you read the following dua 70 times: ALLAAHUMMA LAYYIN QALBA (mention husband's name/mention wife's name) KAMAA LAYYANTAL H'ADEEDA LIDAAWOODA A'LAYHIS SALAAMU WA SAKHKHIR LEE KAMAA SAKHKHARTAR REEH'A LISULAYMAANABNI DAAWOODA A'LAYHIM AS SALAAMU WA ALLIF BAYNANAA KAMAA ALLAFTA BAYNA MUHAMMADAN S'ALLALLAAHU A'LAYHI WA AALIHEE WA SALLAM WA KHADEEJAH WA A'LAYHI WA AALIHEE WA SALLAM WA KHADEEJAH WA A'LIYYIN A'LAYHIS SALAAMU WA FATIMATAZ ZAHRAA-I S'ALAWAATULLAAHI A'LAYHAA YAA ARH'AAMAR RAAHIMEEN .Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu [/b]
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Post by Bint e Attar on Sept 15, 2010 7:00:55 GMT
Brother the wazifa that i am typing here is too much powerful to get maximum Love of ones Husband or wife(the love between spouses), I advice you to read it daily 1 time, After Ishaa or as the Nafli Salaah prescribed timings like After Zoharr or Maghrib,,,,and see it marvelous results,,,,,,, Insha Allah Azzawajal. Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa BarakatuhuBut is he allowed to read this wazaif.. when they are already divorced.. (one divorce or 3x) they are not married anymore.. and this wazaif is only for husband/wife situation... So p.s his profile isnt complete.. so we arent allowed to give him wazaif... oops
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Post by Sayyedah 777 on Sept 15, 2010 7:13:27 GMT
Brother the wazifa that i am typing here is too much powerful to get maximum Love of ones Husband or wife(the love between spouses), I advice you to read it daily 1 time, After Ishaa or as the Nafli Salaah prescribed timings like After Zoharr or Maghrib,,,,and see it marvelous results,,,,,,, Insha Allah Azzawajal. Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa BarakatuhuBut is he allowed to read this wazaif.. when they are already divorced.. (one divorce or 3x) they are not married anymore.. and this wazaif is only for husband/wife situation... So
Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhuis it not any difference between 1 divorced or thrice
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Post by Bint e Attar on Sept 15, 2010 7:28:25 GMT
Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhuis it not any difference between 1 divorced or thrice Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa BarakatuhuHmm 1st divorce is also valid if both of them dont want to be together.. And in their situation nikah is must.. If the husband divorces his legal wife with whom he has made Nikah, but did not consummate the marriage, that is, he did not have sexual intercourse with her, but he says to her, "Upon you is Talaaq, upon you is Talaaq, upon you is Talaaq", in this case, only ONE Talaaq will be valid. By uttering the first Talaaq, this woman is out of Nikah and there is no `Iddat upon her.
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Post by aislamic on Sept 15, 2010 15:13:33 GMT
Yes, however I did not repeat the "tilaaq" three times. I just said it once out of anger so it did not complete. I want to resolve this, so please help.
Jazak'Allah Sister Sayyedah for the wazifa.
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Post by Bint e Attar on Sept 15, 2010 15:27:37 GMT
Yes, however I did not repeat the "tilaaq" three times. I just said it once out of anger so it did not complete. I want to resolve this, so please help. Jazak'Allah Sister Sayyedah for the wazifa. [edited] To be 100% sure of ur situation u should ask an aalim.. and better ask permission for above wazaif.. bc of ur situation.. or else it may backfire at u...
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Post by Saalik on Sept 15, 2010 16:49:36 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
It's better to ask an Aalim e Deen about it because I remember (but forgot most of it) a waqeeah where the great Imam e Aazam Abu Haneefa Radi Allahu Ta'ala Anhu declared and proved a full talaaq to be null in that given circumstance.
There are many maslas which we are not aware of, so extreme precaution is needed in matters regarding talaaq as it's not a game and it's one of the thing that Allah Subhaanahu Wa Ta'ala dislikes most and what shaytaan the accursed likes most.
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Post by Sayyedah 777 on Sept 15, 2010 16:57:09 GMT
Yes, however I did not repeat the "tilaaq" three times. I just said it once out of anger so it did not complete. I want to resolve this, so please help. Jazak'Allah Sister Sayyedah for the wazifa. Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
Brother ......which I have posted for you in wazifa
Necessary note:
These wazaif have positive effects , if the problems are genuine and legal and if these are used for any type of wrong purposes, then it has reverse effects on the situation..and can be hamrful for such person in many ways.so be very clear and aware before going to use it.and its better to consult with any Imam ,because your problem is complicated and you should must have to consult , what shari'ah says, particularly regarding your problem of 1 divorce.Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala knows very well our intentions and Niyyats(matter of hearts).
and this thing what sis Bint e Attar has explained for you following:
Hmm 1st divorce is also valid if both of them dont want to be together.. And in their situation nikah is must..
If the husband divorces his legal wife with whom he has made Nikah, but did not consummate the marriage, that is, he did not have sexual intercourse with her, but he says to her, "Upon you is Talaaq, upon you is Talaaq, upon you is Talaaq", in this case, only ONE Talaaq will be valid. By uttering the first Talaaq, this woman is out of Nikah and there is no `Iddat upon her.
okay so if it is so then you are not supposed to read wazifa that i have posted for you.....and its very better for you to ask from an Aaalim or Imam.because it can be harmful for you both physically+spiritually and can worsen you matter.
did't you read warning in my posted wazifa? A very good and comprehensisive answer for you by Globla Mod Saalik Saahib...do ponder over it.because these matters are very fragile...do not hang yourself with suppositions but do consult with an Imam.
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Post by aislamic on Sept 15, 2010 20:44:15 GMT
As'salamu alaykum,
At the time of this problem, I consulted one aalim about the situation and he said that what I said to her did not constitute a tilaaq.
I only said "tilaaq" ONCE (Not 3 times). According to my knowledge of Shariah, a tilaaq occurs when the husband says the tilaaq 3 times and even with that, there is a certain time period that has to pass between the 1st and 2nd tilaaq for it the tilaaq to be valid.
Also, tilaaq is hated by Allah Subhana wa ta'ala, and my dua is that Allah Subhana wa ta'ala helps save this marriage.
Please continue to make duas.
Jazak'Allah kher.
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Post by Sayyedah 777 on Sept 16, 2010 1:50:35 GMT
As'salamu alaykum, At the time of this problem, I consulted one aalim about the situation and he said that what I said to her did not constitute a tilaaq. I only said "tilaaq" ONCE (Not 3 times). According to my knowledge of Shariah, a tilaaq occurs when the husband says the tilaaq 3 times and even with that, there is a certain time period that has to pass between the 1st and 2nd tilaaq for it the tilaaq to be valid. Also, tilaaq is hated by Allah Subhana wa ta'ala, and my dua is that Allah Subhana wa ta'ala helps save this marriage. Please continue to make duas. Jazak'Allah kher. Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa BarakatuhuBrother its good to know about you have said but did you tell him about Your Nikaah was done on phone and about the following information mentioned by sis Binte Attar...its necessay not just for you but also for us to know whether this condition/information is valid and authentic or not? plz if you did"nt ask yet ...again ask from him...because it is beneficial for you and also for us to know about the exact information.
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Post by Sayyedah 777 on Sept 16, 2010 1:55:17 GMT
As'salamu alaykum, Also, tilaaq is hated by Allah Subhana wa ta'ala, and my dua is that Allah Subhana wa ta'ala helps save this marriage. Please continue to make duas. Jazak'Allah kher. Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhuyeah Brother you are very right that Talaq(divorce) is a disliked act in the court of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala. and if she is still your wife as I have mentioned above to ask again from Aalim because your case is particular and fragile too...... if shee is still, then our best wishes and duas are with you ...May Allah Subhaanahu Wa Ta'ala reunite both of you with all betterments ,Insha Allah Azzawajal With the Blessed Waseelah Of Habib Pak Sallal Laahu Ta'ala Alayhi Wa Aalihi Wa Sallam. Aameen Ya Rabbal Aalmin , Ya Mjeebuddawaat , Ya Samiud-dua,Wa Ya Ahamarrahimin. Sallu Alal Habib Salli Ala Muhammad Sallal Laahu Ta'ala Alayhi Wa Sallam.
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Post by aislamic on Sept 16, 2010 3:24:19 GMT
As'salamu alaykum,
The Nikkah was done in-person (and not on the phone), and yes I explained the entire situation to him.
My problems have reached great heights as my wife has now filed for khulla.
Please make your duas as I want to resolve this and keep my Nikkah from falling apart.
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Post by Bint e Attar on Sept 16, 2010 6:17:29 GMT
As'salamu alaykum, At the time of this problem, I consulted one aalim about the situation and he said that what I said to her did not constitute a tilaaq. I only said "tilaaq" ONCE (Not 3 times). According to my knowledge of Shariah, a tilaaq occurs when the husband says the tilaaq 3 times and even with that, there is a certain time period that has to pass between the 1st and 2nd tilaaq for it the tilaaq to be valid. Also, tilaaq is hated by Allah Subhana wa ta'ala, and my dua is that Allah Subhana wa ta'ala helps save this marriage. Please continue to make duas. Jazak'Allah kher. Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa BarakatuhuTechnically One talaq can be valid too.. it just means that u can re-marry the same person again without any probs.. And abt Idat period between 1st and 2nd talaq.. then in ur case there is no iddat period.. hence no waiting period.. And u should ask an Imam... bc these matters are very tricky and u wont get a proper answer on an Islamic forum.. and her asking khula could be bc of paper reason.. i.e u guys are probably still married on that point.. ofcours it doesnt have to be according to shariah.. or its possible that she wants to have 3 talaqs.. in that case my suggestion would be not to give her 3 talaqs (bc as far as I know its not a must to give talaq 3x for it to be valid.. ) and do ask an Imam if the 1st talaq was valid or not bc of the wording u used for it..
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Post by aislamic on Sept 16, 2010 15:40:16 GMT
As'salamu alaykum,
Jazak'Allah kher to all the brother and sisters for your duas. I ask that you please continue to make duas and may Allah Subhana wa tala give you jaza and enrich your lives in this world and the hereafter with eternal happiness.
I spoke to a maulana last night and explained the situation to him. He also said that in my situation, the tilaaq did not happen. Insha'Allah there is still chance to amend the marriage.
My situation has reached a very critical period so I request you all to make duas and share any wazifas you may have.
Jazak'Allah kher
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