Post by asifwithu on May 10, 2015 17:31:11 GMT
"Bismil Laa-hir.Rahmaa-nir-Raheem""Al-Hamdu Lillaahi Rabbil 'Aalameen was Salaatu was- Salaamu 'Alaa Sayidinaa Muhammadin wa Aalihi wa Asabihi Ajma 'een (tauheed- risalat- ahkirat and islam-iman-ihsan)
Qurbiat/nearness of allah taala--akhlaaq
How to gain Qurbiat/Nearness of Allah Ta'ala ?
You need 4 things 1.knowledge 2.love 3.akhlaaq 4.nawafil (other than fariaz)
AKHLAAQ
Akhlaaq-e-Baatiniyah related to the heart are called Akhlaaq-e-Hameedah (the Beautiful Attributes):Tauheed, Ikhlaas, Taubah, Muhabbat-e-ilaahi, Zuhd, Tawakkul, Qanaa'at, Hilm, Sabr, Shukr, Sidq, Tafweez, Tasleem, Ridhaa, fanaa, and fanaa-ul-fanaa.
Akhlaaq-e-Baatiniyah related to the Nafs are called Akhlaaq-e-Razeelah (The Despicable Attributes): Tam'a, Toolul amal (greed of longer desires), Ghussah, Daroogh, Gheebat, Hasad, Bukhl, Riyaa, Ujub, Kibr, Hiqd, Hubb-e-maal, Hubb-e-Jaah, Hubb-e-dunya.
The process of purifying the nafs from these attributes is called Tazkiyah-e-Nafs. In this regard, Allah Ta'ala says: "He who has made Tazkiyah (purified) his nafs, verily, he has attained success."
INTENTION- intention should be to surrender totally to divine will and to gain allah's pleasure/raza(with affirmation from heart). Will, the act and the power, is solely from allah.
just ignore waswasa/bad thoughts when they arise at the first instance itself.dont disclose it to others keep secreat your ibadah .dont show off.Be in wadhu everytime and fight against nafs/ego/ carnal desires . be away from the world except for genuine needs. display good manners.
keep reciting sunnah suplications/dua like for eating,drinking,sleeping ,awakeing,sneezing ,going to toilet,going to market etc. atleast say bismillah before starting any act.Follow sunnah and keep patience.best ibadah is 5times namaz with jamaat( if you miss jamaat make sure you offer it immediately or atleast cover up with qaza )
Give lot of charity and keep reading qaza namaz regularly.complete 1 quran every month with dua at the end of it .Lot of darood o salam and astaqfar .Fasting- on 13th 14th and 15th every Islamic month and also every Monday and Thursday of the week.Visit graveyard every Thursday or Friday .Do lot of essale sawab.
Each Act or Tasbih or Du'a should begin and terminate with the recital of Durood Shareef and one who wishes for the acceptance of his Du'as should use the Wasila of Sayyiduna Rasoolullah (Salla Allahu ta'ala alyhi wa Sallam).
If some spiritual condition occurs in your heart or some amazing knowledge enters the heart, don’t get excited our aim is to gain allah’s raza/pleasure (ignore the fantacies) have trust in Allah and present your needs to Him only. Request Allah to grant you steadfastness on the Deen.
ACQUIRING touheed -by contemplating on the weakness of creation and the power of the Creator.
ACQUIRING IKHLAAS -Elimination of riyaa (show) is precisely the acquisition of Ikhlaas.
ACQUIRING taubah- shunning the sin, firmly resolving to abstain from it in future and controlling the nafs when it urges for the sin. taubah is Waajib (compulsory). When a sin has been committed, immediately perform two Rak'ats Salaat with the intention of Taubah. One then has to offer repentance with both the tongue and heart.
ACQUIRING khauf -is to meditate of his Wrath and 'Itaab. Allah Ta'ala will confer him Hidaa'yat (guidance from Allah), Rahmat (mercy), ilm (knowledge) and Ridhaa (contentment) for those who are imbued with the khauf of Allah Ta'ala.
ACQUIRING Razaa- is to reflect about the vastness of Allah's Rahmat and His Magnificence.
THE REMEDY for anger -Recite: Aa-uozo-Billahi-minash-Shaitaani-Rrajeem.The aggressor should personally apologize in profusion and seek the pardon of the one whom he had wronged.
sit down if you happen to be standing; if you happen to be sitting then lay down. Make wudhu with cold water or drink cold water. Divert your attention by immediately engaging in some other activity, especially reading which is very efficacious in curbing anger. withdraw from the presence of the one who is the target of your anger.
ACQUIRING RIDHAA /SHAUQ / UNS /THE MUHABBAT OF ALLAH -Constant remembrance and contemplation of the Attributes and Bounties of Allah Ta'ala will induce the desired Muhabbat for Him. Compliance with the Laws of the Shari'at and much Zikr of Allah expel the love of others from the heart.
ACQUIRING Zuhd -is to meditate on the defects, harms and ephemeral nature of the world, as well as to reflect on the benefits and the everlasting nature of the Aakhirat.
ACQUIRING TAWAKKUL - is by contemplating the bounties of Allah Ta'ala, His Promises and one's past success.
ACQUIRING SABR - by weakening the desires of lust and emotion.
ACQUIRING SHUKR - by contemplating the bounties of Allah Ta'ala.
ACQUIRING SIDQ - Constancy in improving and perfecting one's acts will ensure within a short while the perfect state of Sidq.
ACQUIRING TAF'WEEZ - an event which is in conflict with one's liking then immediately think that it is an act of Allah and most assuredly there is wisdom and goodness in it.
ACQUIRING FANAA - by mujaahidah and Zikr in abundance( tongue and heart).
ACQUIRING NISBAT WITH ALLAH TA'ALA- Bandah’s relationship with Allah means (obedience) +consciousness+ striving to follow the Sunnah. Salaat is an all-embracing form of worship. If executed properly, observing all its rules, conditions and respects then no other specific form of Riyaadhat (spiritual exercise) is necessary for spiritual progress and the achievement of Nisbat Ma'Allah. Salaat contains Zikr, Shaghl(silent zikr), Muraaqabah, Auraad, e.g. Tasbeeh, Istighfaar, Darood etc.
REMEDY for Unnecessary Talking /Unrestrained Glances /Keeping Bad Company
Dhikr of Allah ta'Ala, recitation of the Noble Qur'an, seeking Allah's forgiveness, making du'as, darood ,praying at night.
THE REMEDY FOR Taqwaa-To abstain from sins.
THE REMEDY for hirs-Reduce expenditure. This will diminish concern and yearning for more earnings.
THE REMEDY for Tamaa'- is mujaahidah-- to accustom oneself to oppose the desires of the lowly nafs so that the carnal and material desires of the lowly nafs are subordinated to the Pleasure of Allah Ta'ala.
THE REMEDY for falsehood-When speaking, be careful. Do not speak without thinking. Ponder before you speak and be firm in confronting and curbing the urge to speak what is false. Resort to Taubah in abundance.
THE REMEDY for Hasad -is by praising much the person against whom jealousy is directed. Honour them and meet him or her with respect and humility.
THE REMEDY for bukhl-Remembrance of maut (death) in abundance expels the love of wealth from the heart.
THE REMEDY for riyaa- is the expulsion from the heart of the desire for fame and name(love for name, fame and glory). Execute your acts of lbaadat in solitude. Execute specific act of Ibaadat in abundance. Within a short while the riyaa will be dispelled and by force of habit the Ibaadat will become sincere.
THE REMEDY for ujub/vanity-Always regard excellence and virtues which one possesses to be the bestowal of Allah Ta'ala. Contemplate on the power of Allah and fear the possibility of the gifts being snatches away. Ponder about your faults, both internal and external so that the notion of perfection and holiness is annihilated.
THE REMEDY for takabbur- by reflecting on the Splendour, Glory and Majesty of Allah Ta'ala. This reflection will produce in one a realization of one's own lowly position. humble yourself in the presence of those whom you regard as your inferior. Be respectful to them so that you become imbued with humility.
THE REMEDY for HIQD (MALICE, AVARICE) - to overlook the fault of the one for whom Hiqd is entertained and to associate with him irrespective of the difficulty one may experience in the adoption of such a big-hearted attitude.
THE REMEDY for hubb-e-jaah-Meditate on the futility of hubb-e-jaah. Neither the one who honours nor the one who is honoured will remain. All will perish. It is therefore childish to be delighted over such a transitory and illusionary attribute. Contemplating in this way will eliminate this malady.
THE REMEDY for hubb e duniya-Remember maut (death) in abundance / do not involve yourself in distant and remote hopes. In this way the love of the world will be eliminated from the heart. "Die before your death." This Hadith means that one has to inculcate the attribute of the dead in one even before death, and that attribute is the lack of worldly love.
DYING BEFORE DEATH (This is the life which Rasulullah Sallallahu alayhi wasallam desired for his Ummah).These attributes which are in the perfect state in the dying man(as is the position at the time of maut) are:
Taubah (repentance)-to emerge from all evil
zuhd, (abstention)- to shun the world and everything in it
Qanaa'at (contentment)- abstention from lowly desires-- to be contented
tawakkul (trust in Allah)- to shun all abnormal worldly agencies
Azlat (solitude)- to sever all ties with creation
Tawajju I'lallaah (attention directed to Allah Ta'ala)-only Allah Ta'ala attention
sabr (patience)- to shun pleasures
Ridhaa (pleased with Allah)- to abstain from pleasing the nafs
Zikr (remembrance of Allah)- to submit in entirety to Allah Ta'ala
muraaqabah (meditation)-the body is on earth, but the rooh should be directed to the Aakhirah, and be in communion with Allah Ta'ala.
When I want to talk to allah I say prayers and when I want that he talk to me I recite quran- Hazrath AliRadi Allahu anhu
Make sure you forward this to others .
Qurbiat/nearness of allah taala--akhlaaq
How to gain Qurbiat/Nearness of Allah Ta'ala ?
You need 4 things 1.knowledge 2.love 3.akhlaaq 4.nawafil (other than fariaz)
AKHLAAQ
Akhlaaq-e-Baatiniyah related to the heart are called Akhlaaq-e-Hameedah (the Beautiful Attributes):Tauheed, Ikhlaas, Taubah, Muhabbat-e-ilaahi, Zuhd, Tawakkul, Qanaa'at, Hilm, Sabr, Shukr, Sidq, Tafweez, Tasleem, Ridhaa, fanaa, and fanaa-ul-fanaa.
Akhlaaq-e-Baatiniyah related to the Nafs are called Akhlaaq-e-Razeelah (The Despicable Attributes): Tam'a, Toolul amal (greed of longer desires), Ghussah, Daroogh, Gheebat, Hasad, Bukhl, Riyaa, Ujub, Kibr, Hiqd, Hubb-e-maal, Hubb-e-Jaah, Hubb-e-dunya.
The process of purifying the nafs from these attributes is called Tazkiyah-e-Nafs. In this regard, Allah Ta'ala says: "He who has made Tazkiyah (purified) his nafs, verily, he has attained success."
INTENTION- intention should be to surrender totally to divine will and to gain allah's pleasure/raza(with affirmation from heart). Will, the act and the power, is solely from allah.
just ignore waswasa/bad thoughts when they arise at the first instance itself.dont disclose it to others keep secreat your ibadah .dont show off.Be in wadhu everytime and fight against nafs/ego/ carnal desires . be away from the world except for genuine needs. display good manners.
keep reciting sunnah suplications/dua like for eating,drinking,sleeping ,awakeing,sneezing ,going to toilet,going to market etc. atleast say bismillah before starting any act.Follow sunnah and keep patience.best ibadah is 5times namaz with jamaat( if you miss jamaat make sure you offer it immediately or atleast cover up with qaza )
Give lot of charity and keep reading qaza namaz regularly.complete 1 quran every month with dua at the end of it .Lot of darood o salam and astaqfar .Fasting- on 13th 14th and 15th every Islamic month and also every Monday and Thursday of the week.Visit graveyard every Thursday or Friday .Do lot of essale sawab.
Each Act or Tasbih or Du'a should begin and terminate with the recital of Durood Shareef and one who wishes for the acceptance of his Du'as should use the Wasila of Sayyiduna Rasoolullah (Salla Allahu ta'ala alyhi wa Sallam).
If some spiritual condition occurs in your heart or some amazing knowledge enters the heart, don’t get excited our aim is to gain allah’s raza/pleasure (ignore the fantacies) have trust in Allah and present your needs to Him only. Request Allah to grant you steadfastness on the Deen.
ACQUIRING touheed -by contemplating on the weakness of creation and the power of the Creator.
ACQUIRING IKHLAAS -Elimination of riyaa (show) is precisely the acquisition of Ikhlaas.
ACQUIRING taubah- shunning the sin, firmly resolving to abstain from it in future and controlling the nafs when it urges for the sin. taubah is Waajib (compulsory). When a sin has been committed, immediately perform two Rak'ats Salaat with the intention of Taubah. One then has to offer repentance with both the tongue and heart.
ACQUIRING khauf -is to meditate of his Wrath and 'Itaab. Allah Ta'ala will confer him Hidaa'yat (guidance from Allah), Rahmat (mercy), ilm (knowledge) and Ridhaa (contentment) for those who are imbued with the khauf of Allah Ta'ala.
ACQUIRING Razaa- is to reflect about the vastness of Allah's Rahmat and His Magnificence.
THE REMEDY for anger -Recite: Aa-uozo-Billahi-minash-Shaitaani-Rrajeem.The aggressor should personally apologize in profusion and seek the pardon of the one whom he had wronged.
sit down if you happen to be standing; if you happen to be sitting then lay down. Make wudhu with cold water or drink cold water. Divert your attention by immediately engaging in some other activity, especially reading which is very efficacious in curbing anger. withdraw from the presence of the one who is the target of your anger.
ACQUIRING RIDHAA /SHAUQ / UNS /THE MUHABBAT OF ALLAH -Constant remembrance and contemplation of the Attributes and Bounties of Allah Ta'ala will induce the desired Muhabbat for Him. Compliance with the Laws of the Shari'at and much Zikr of Allah expel the love of others from the heart.
ACQUIRING Zuhd -is to meditate on the defects, harms and ephemeral nature of the world, as well as to reflect on the benefits and the everlasting nature of the Aakhirat.
ACQUIRING TAWAKKUL - is by contemplating the bounties of Allah Ta'ala, His Promises and one's past success.
ACQUIRING SABR - by weakening the desires of lust and emotion.
ACQUIRING SHUKR - by contemplating the bounties of Allah Ta'ala.
ACQUIRING SIDQ - Constancy in improving and perfecting one's acts will ensure within a short while the perfect state of Sidq.
ACQUIRING TAF'WEEZ - an event which is in conflict with one's liking then immediately think that it is an act of Allah and most assuredly there is wisdom and goodness in it.
ACQUIRING FANAA - by mujaahidah and Zikr in abundance( tongue and heart).
ACQUIRING NISBAT WITH ALLAH TA'ALA- Bandah’s relationship with Allah means (obedience) +consciousness+ striving to follow the Sunnah. Salaat is an all-embracing form of worship. If executed properly, observing all its rules, conditions and respects then no other specific form of Riyaadhat (spiritual exercise) is necessary for spiritual progress and the achievement of Nisbat Ma'Allah. Salaat contains Zikr, Shaghl(silent zikr), Muraaqabah, Auraad, e.g. Tasbeeh, Istighfaar, Darood etc.
REMEDY for Unnecessary Talking /Unrestrained Glances /Keeping Bad Company
Dhikr of Allah ta'Ala, recitation of the Noble Qur'an, seeking Allah's forgiveness, making du'as, darood ,praying at night.
THE REMEDY FOR Taqwaa-To abstain from sins.
THE REMEDY for hirs-Reduce expenditure. This will diminish concern and yearning for more earnings.
THE REMEDY for Tamaa'- is mujaahidah-- to accustom oneself to oppose the desires of the lowly nafs so that the carnal and material desires of the lowly nafs are subordinated to the Pleasure of Allah Ta'ala.
THE REMEDY for falsehood-When speaking, be careful. Do not speak without thinking. Ponder before you speak and be firm in confronting and curbing the urge to speak what is false. Resort to Taubah in abundance.
THE REMEDY for Hasad -is by praising much the person against whom jealousy is directed. Honour them and meet him or her with respect and humility.
THE REMEDY for bukhl-Remembrance of maut (death) in abundance expels the love of wealth from the heart.
THE REMEDY for riyaa- is the expulsion from the heart of the desire for fame and name(love for name, fame and glory). Execute your acts of lbaadat in solitude. Execute specific act of Ibaadat in abundance. Within a short while the riyaa will be dispelled and by force of habit the Ibaadat will become sincere.
THE REMEDY for ujub/vanity-Always regard excellence and virtues which one possesses to be the bestowal of Allah Ta'ala. Contemplate on the power of Allah and fear the possibility of the gifts being snatches away. Ponder about your faults, both internal and external so that the notion of perfection and holiness is annihilated.
THE REMEDY for takabbur- by reflecting on the Splendour, Glory and Majesty of Allah Ta'ala. This reflection will produce in one a realization of one's own lowly position. humble yourself in the presence of those whom you regard as your inferior. Be respectful to them so that you become imbued with humility.
THE REMEDY for HIQD (MALICE, AVARICE) - to overlook the fault of the one for whom Hiqd is entertained and to associate with him irrespective of the difficulty one may experience in the adoption of such a big-hearted attitude.
THE REMEDY for hubb-e-jaah-Meditate on the futility of hubb-e-jaah. Neither the one who honours nor the one who is honoured will remain. All will perish. It is therefore childish to be delighted over such a transitory and illusionary attribute. Contemplating in this way will eliminate this malady.
THE REMEDY for hubb e duniya-Remember maut (death) in abundance / do not involve yourself in distant and remote hopes. In this way the love of the world will be eliminated from the heart. "Die before your death." This Hadith means that one has to inculcate the attribute of the dead in one even before death, and that attribute is the lack of worldly love.
DYING BEFORE DEATH (This is the life which Rasulullah Sallallahu alayhi wasallam desired for his Ummah).These attributes which are in the perfect state in the dying man(as is the position at the time of maut) are:
Taubah (repentance)-to emerge from all evil
zuhd, (abstention)- to shun the world and everything in it
Qanaa'at (contentment)- abstention from lowly desires-- to be contented
tawakkul (trust in Allah)- to shun all abnormal worldly agencies
Azlat (solitude)- to sever all ties with creation
Tawajju I'lallaah (attention directed to Allah Ta'ala)-only Allah Ta'ala attention
sabr (patience)- to shun pleasures
Ridhaa (pleased with Allah)- to abstain from pleasing the nafs
Zikr (remembrance of Allah)- to submit in entirety to Allah Ta'ala
muraaqabah (meditation)-the body is on earth, but the rooh should be directed to the Aakhirah, and be in communion with Allah Ta'ala.
When I want to talk to allah I say prayers and when I want that he talk to me I recite quran- Hazrath AliRadi Allahu anhu
Make sure you forward this to others .