Post by Ashiq e Rasool on Jun 15, 2007 9:55:39 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
ASALATU WASALAMU ALAYKA YA RASULLALLAH Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam
ASALATU WASALAMU ALAYKA YA RASULLALLAH Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam
I would like to dedicate this Thread to sister Surriya who is getting married in July. Sister Surriya was the first moderator of this website and has helped and contributed so much towards the success of this website and forum. WE really appreciate all her help and outstanding work and would like to take this opportunity to Congratulate her and her Fiance Kaleem, on their marriage and Wish them all the best for the future.
SHADI MUBARAK
Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem
In The name of Almighty Allah Most Gracious Most Merciful.
NASHEEHAT
Of A Mother To Her Departing Daughter On The Occasion Of Her Nikah.
Today my beautiful daughter, you will leave our home and enter your husbands home, enter with your right foot first.
Enter with love and a union of companionship, and trust and accept this marriage as a gift from Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta'ala) and a flower of life.
Belief in it as the beacon of light of the Sunnah of Our Beloved Prophet Sayedina Muhammad Mustufa (Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam) and you will not go wrong!.
Follow the example of our Beloved Prophet Sayedina Muhammad Mustufa (Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam) and Hadrat Khadijat ul Kubra (Radi Allahu anha), and repose complete confidence in each other and never let the seeds of suspicion grow between you.
Be contended with whatever you get for this will bring peace.
Be obedient to your husband and listen to whatever he says for this will bring you the Mercy of Almighty Allah.
Value the advice and suggestions presented to you by your life partner.
When he is angry always show tolerance and patience, as this will cool the anger.
Comfort and stand by each other, through thick and thin and remain steadfast in Prayer, as this will get you through life’s trials and tribulations.
He must not see you in untidiness nor smell, but the fragrance and remember that water has the best fragrance in absence of perfume and surmah adds the most beauty.
Be prepared for Him at meal times for the heat of hunger is inflammable.
Be quiet when he sleeps for the disturbance of sleep angers.
Safeguard his assets for which he will trust you.
Care for his parents and relatives for which he will have confidence in you.
Do not dis-close of his secrets for if you do, he will not spare you when he retaliates.
Comfort him when he is worried, and be joyous when he is happy this will bond you closer.
And remember, Oh my beloved Daughter, that you will only attain all this if you give preference to his likes over yours and his desire above yours in all things you do.
And Oh My Beloved Daughter, at all times be mindful of your duties to Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta'ala).
Give priority to the orders of Almighty Allah and the Beautiful Sunnah of our Beloved Prophet Sayedina Muhammad (Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam) over all other orders for this will secure Jannat for you and remember not to obey anyone if their orders be contrary to the commands of Almighty Allah.
Go Daughter with Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta'ala) Blessings and Our Dua's and spread your wings and your beautiful presence in your New home, and remember all that we have taught you, teach it to all you come in contact with, tread on the right Path, 'Sirat ul Mustqeem' The Path Of Our Beautiful Prophet Sayedina Muhammad. (Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam)
Our Prayers Are With You!
Enter with love and a union of companionship, and trust and accept this marriage as a gift from Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta'ala) and a flower of life.
Belief in it as the beacon of light of the Sunnah of Our Beloved Prophet Sayedina Muhammad Mustufa (Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam) and you will not go wrong!.
Follow the example of our Beloved Prophet Sayedina Muhammad Mustufa (Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam) and Hadrat Khadijat ul Kubra (Radi Allahu anha), and repose complete confidence in each other and never let the seeds of suspicion grow between you.
Be contended with whatever you get for this will bring peace.
Be obedient to your husband and listen to whatever he says for this will bring you the Mercy of Almighty Allah.
Value the advice and suggestions presented to you by your life partner.
When he is angry always show tolerance and patience, as this will cool the anger.
Comfort and stand by each other, through thick and thin and remain steadfast in Prayer, as this will get you through life’s trials and tribulations.
He must not see you in untidiness nor smell, but the fragrance and remember that water has the best fragrance in absence of perfume and surmah adds the most beauty.
Be prepared for Him at meal times for the heat of hunger is inflammable.
Be quiet when he sleeps for the disturbance of sleep angers.
Safeguard his assets for which he will trust you.
Care for his parents and relatives for which he will have confidence in you.
Do not dis-close of his secrets for if you do, he will not spare you when he retaliates.
Comfort him when he is worried, and be joyous when he is happy this will bond you closer.
And remember, Oh my beloved Daughter, that you will only attain all this if you give preference to his likes over yours and his desire above yours in all things you do.
And Oh My Beloved Daughter, at all times be mindful of your duties to Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta'ala).
Give priority to the orders of Almighty Allah and the Beautiful Sunnah of our Beloved Prophet Sayedina Muhammad (Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam) over all other orders for this will secure Jannat for you and remember not to obey anyone if their orders be contrary to the commands of Almighty Allah.
Go Daughter with Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta'ala) Blessings and Our Dua's and spread your wings and your beautiful presence in your New home, and remember all that we have taught you, teach it to all you come in contact with, tread on the right Path, 'Sirat ul Mustqeem' The Path Of Our Beautiful Prophet Sayedina Muhammad. (Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam)
Our Prayers Are With You!
ASALATU WASALAMU ALAYKA YA RASULLALLAH Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam
. Grant you both happiness and a loving married life Ameen, Thum,Ameen.
