HOW TO BE A TRUE MUSLIM?

[faisal786]

Assalamo alaikum ,

I need your help imam sahib : i am a muslim female , my parents have tought me Quran and all the basic things that we need to know.

i don't do any bad things but my problem is : i am feeling as if my Imaan is getting weaker and weaker. I don't pray and i read Quran only during Ramzan . I know it's really bad but i don't find the strenght to startt praying again . this make me feel so sad every day i think about it but i don't find the strenght i don't want to go away from my religion i want to stay close to it, i want to be a good muslim but there is nothing in my heart .

This kills me to say thing like this but why is there nothing in my heart? I try to understand but i don't understand anything . Why is my imaan getting weak even if i don't want it to be ? Im my family we faced a lot of problems and instead of praying that everything goes back to normal , i have just lost hope.

This is really bad and it makes me feel so guilty that sometimes i say to myself what kind of muslim i am ?

Please give me something to read so that i pray and become a good muslim and that i feel close to Islam .

i am married and i have a child . I want to show her the right way
and for this i need to be a good muslim myself .

Please help me with some dua to read .

Jazzak Allah

[Imam]

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu


All Praise be to Allah who is the Lord of the Worlds, and may Endless Blessings be showered upon His Most Beloved, and Final Messenger of Islam, Hadrat Muhammad Mustafa Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam

First of all you need to start praying your five times salah. If it is impossible to start with five, then try to read one salah every day, and add one other salah the next day so that you are not missing any after 5 days. Thjose that you have missed will be able to be made up after you become regular in your 5 times salah.

Try to remain in a state of purity, all the time. There should not be a single minute in your life where you spend it in a state of impurity. Try to ensure that you remain in wudhu', most of the time, if not all the time.

The time you spend between one salah, and another, for example Zuhr and 'Asr, try to recite as much 'durud sharif' as possible. Try to recite some Qur'an, as you will already be in a state of purity, and in wudhu'. After this go to sleep for about 45 minutes, which is also a sunnah, after the Zuhar prayer.

In addition to this, you may recite the following du'a as much as possible, with 'durud sharif' 11 times before, and 11 times after, the du'a is:

'Ya shaykh Sayyid 'Abdul Qadir Jilani Shay'il lillah'

Insha'Allah, once you have organised your priorities, and these are very important priorities, Allah the Almighty will instill in you a love for your religion, and He will guide you on the Straight Path. But it is up to you remain, firm steadfast, and sincere in all the good actions that you do.

May Allah the Almighty give us all the tawfiq, to make all the correct actions that are beloved to Him, and by it, make our health, life in this world, and the life of the Hereafter, better for us. (Amin).


Jazak'allah for your question.





Wallahu A'lamu Biththawaab


M. Waseem Ashrafi