Post by Sag E Dargah E Jilani on Mar 25, 2009 7:56:59 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
I have specially woken up for this post so please do give your thoughts and feelings.
I have a freind mashallah he is doing alim course at faizan e madina which is 8 years long. He has done 1 year and now is on his second. As the GCSE exams are close up now he is falling into depression/breakdown. . There are 24 school days left and he hasnt revised at all. He says this is because he goes to mosque straight after school, and returns home at 8. then he eats and that kind of buisness and then at half 9 he learns his next day sabq for mosque . then at 10:30 he goes to sleep the lazy bugger:P . So he gets no revison done at all.
He dont wanna take time off mosque and he dont think he can as if you miss one lesson you fall behind as the whole mosque class learn the same sabaq.
So he is in a difficult situation because he dont know what to do. He eitheir gives up alim course, sleeps late and then miss namaz e fajar . Well it has too be one of these.
So please give your suggestions of what to do!!! He has asked me and I dont know what to say so I am asking you people as you older and may give some ideas that will no doubt benifit him.
Also I personally think that he should give up alim course. I dont wanna say it but he wants to do A levels in college which are quite hard and alot of home revison has to go into them for sucessful grades,so he probaly have to give up sooner or later.
They are my thoughts please share yours.
Jazakallah Khayrun
Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
I have specially woken up for this post so please do give your thoughts and feelings.
I have a freind mashallah he is doing alim course at faizan e madina which is 8 years long. He has done 1 year and now is on his second. As the GCSE exams are close up now he is falling into depression/breakdown. . There are 24 school days left and he hasnt revised at all. He says this is because he goes to mosque straight after school, and returns home at 8. then he eats and that kind of buisness and then at half 9 he learns his next day sabq for mosque . then at 10:30 he goes to sleep the lazy bugger:P . So he gets no revison done at all.
He dont wanna take time off mosque and he dont think he can as if you miss one lesson you fall behind as the whole mosque class learn the same sabaq.
So he is in a difficult situation because he dont know what to do. He eitheir gives up alim course, sleeps late and then miss namaz e fajar . Well it has too be one of these.
So please give your suggestions of what to do!!! He has asked me and I dont know what to say so I am asking you people as you older and may give some ideas that will no doubt benifit him.
Also I personally think that he should give up alim course. I dont wanna say it but he wants to do A levels in college which are quite hard and alot of home revison has to go into them for sucessful grades,so he probaly have to give up sooner or later.
They are my thoughts please share yours.
Jazakallah Khayrun
Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu