IS YOUR PARTNER A PRACTISING MUSLIM

[asif trying 2 b rabbani]

Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

ASALATU WASALAMU ALAYKA YA RASULLALLAH Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem
HELLO BROTHER'S AND SISTERS i wondered if anyones other half is also a practicing muslim...

Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

[hal786]

Asslamu Alaykum my hubby is a pract Muslim he has encouraged me to pract deen too.
I am very happy to have a husband like mines alhamdillah. I am very lucky that Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'aladestined me a pract guy alhamdillah. Although i do fine him very strict at times. As im easy going myself thats why.

Take care
Allah Hafiz

[Sohail]

Asslamu Alaykum my hubby is a pract Muslim he has encouraged me to pract deen too.
I am very happy to have a husband like mines alhamdillah. I am very lucky that Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'aladestined me a pract guy alhamdillah. Although i do fine him very strict at times. As im easy going myself thats why.

strict is good as long as hes not too strict like dominating

[fatma]

Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

what exactly do you mean by practising? i've always been confused by this statement.

[asif trying 2 b rabbani]

Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

anyone who reads namaaz,and anyone who trys to be pious

[fatma]

Apr 18, 2009 8:47:57 GMT asif trying 2 b rabbani said:

Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

anyone who reads namaaz,and anyone who trys to be pious

Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

so if someone reads all their namaaz and appears to be a good muslim then that would be a practising muslim yet they could back bite, lie and various other small sins and that would be disregarded due to the fact that they read all their namaaz and pray much.

i don't believe that that is correct and we shouldn't use the term practising muslim as it is misleading.

if you read namaaz then fair enough, if you try and be a good muslim then also good but to label someone is wrong.

i would say that i am married to a good person who always tries to read his namaaz on time and tries to follow the sunnah of Rasool Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam as best that he can. to me that is all that matters really.

[asif trying 2 b rabbani]

Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

ASALATU WASALAMU ALAYKA YA RASULLALLAH Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

sister fatma you get fellow muslims with a muslim tag but they don 't read namaaz they don't follow the sunnath.but they might go to jumma once a while.

[hal786]

Asslamu Alaykum Bhai Sohail no my hubby is not dominating thank god.Strict in the sense of i have to ask his permission before i go out. I have to tell him where i spent my money.
Other then that he has a easy going nature alhamdillah.

take care
Allah Hafiz

[thc]

assalamu alaikum,

i assume that everyone wanted a practicng muslim and therefore went out to seek one for marriage?

[fatma]

Apr 18, 2009 21:12:56 GMT hal786 said:

Asslamu Alaykum Bhai Sohail no my hubby is not dominating thank god.Strict in the sense of i have to ask his permission before i go out. I have to tell him where i spent my money.
Other then that he has a easy going nature alhamdillah.

take care
Allah Hafiz

Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

sister i'm confused as to which part of the above mentioned things aren't dominating

i've never had to ask my hubby's permission before i go out but i still tell him where i'm going. and i have never had to give him an account of what i've done with my money!!!

[anila5]

Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

I find this interesting even though I'm not married ( Inshallah hope too be one day) since I remember attending a mehfil once and was told that you had to have your husband's ejazat ( permission) when wanting to go out. can someone clarify please...

Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

[Noor e Naqshband]

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

It is very important that the wife pleases the husband, so if he wishes for you not to go out, then ideally she shouldnt.

(Its actually really simple but in nowadays like that will happen )

Fi Aminillah

Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

[sajjad dar ashrafi]

Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

ASALATU WASALAMU ALAYKA YA RASULLALLAH Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam

I pray more than my wife but in others things I think she is a lot better that me

[anila5]

May 8, 2009 21:59:48 GMT Noor e Naqshband said:

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

It is very important that the wife pleases the husband, so if he wishes for you not to go out, then ideally she shouldnt.

(Its actually really simple but in nowadays like that will happen )


Fi Aminillah

Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

LOL You can say that again sister. I think even if a husband doesn't give his wife permission to go out , some women are tuned for that to mean go out and come back when you feel like it. ;D

Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

[Noor e Naqshband]

May 8, 2009 22:16:54 GMT anila5 said:

LOL You can say that again sister. I think even if a husband doesn't give his wife permission to go out , some women are tuned for that to mean go out and come back when you feel like it. ;D

Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

May Allah Ta'lah protect us all from this, Ameen!

Rasoolallah Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam was asked: ''O Messenger of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala, What is our fault that most of us would go to hell?'' Rasoolallah Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam replied: ''You are more ungrateful towards your husbands.''

Fi Aminillah

Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

[anila5]

May 8, 2009 22:22:10 GMT Noor e Naqshband said:

May 8, 2009 22:16:54 GMT anila5 said:

LOL You can say that again sister. I think even if a husband doesn't give his wife permission to go out , some women are tuned for that to mean go out and come back when you feel like it. ;D

Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

May Allah Ta'lah protect us all from this, Ameen!

Rasoolallah Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam was asked: ''O Messenger of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala, What is our fault that most of us would go to hell?'' Rasoolallah Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam replied: ''You are more ungrateful towards your husbands.''

Fi Aminillah

Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

Indeed may Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala protect us all from this sin. Ameen Summa Ameen.
Jazakallah for the wonderful quote sister hajan.

Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

[fatma]

May 8, 2009 21:21:19 GMT anila5 said:

Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

I find this interesting even though I'm not married ( Inshallah hope too be one day) since I remember attending a mehfil once and was told that you had to have your husband's ejazat ( permission) when wanting to go out. can someone clarify please...

Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

your husband can give you ijazat to go out when as you need to, to do the houshold things i.e. shopping dropping the kids off to school, picking them up and tending to relatives.

if he says you can o all these things and that you don't need to ask him before doing so then you are not breaking shariah laws.

if your husband has specifically said no to go somewhere and yet you still do it then you will be held accountable.

imagine if you had to call your husband up every 30 mins to ask if you could go out to drop the kids off, to pick them so on and so on he'd get sick and tired of you and just tell you to do what you want ;D

[sajjad dar ashrafi]

Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

ASALATU WASALAMU ALAYKA YA RASULLALLAH Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam

I know how it feels