MadaniSister
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Post by MadaniSister on Apr 5, 2007 17:52:00 GMT
Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
ASALATU WASALAMU ALAYKA YA RASULLALLAH Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam
Brothers and Sisters How Often Do you Complain? or have Made a Complaint? against Someone say over a Meal that wasn't to your Liking?,Or a Simple complaint about Not Getting The services You require?
Abu Hurairah, radiyallahu 'anhu, reported that the Messenger of Allah, sallallahu 'alayhi wasallam, said:
"Let whosoever believes in Allah and in the Last Day either speak good or be silent. Let whosoever believes in Allah Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam and in the Last Day honour his neighbour. Let whosoever believes in Allah Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam and in the Last Day honour his guest."
[Al-Bukhari & Muslim]
Please Vote and share your Views JazakAllahkhair
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Ashiq e Rasool
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Post by Ashiq e Rasool on Apr 17, 2007 8:55:34 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
ASALATU WASALAMU ALAYKA YA RASULLALLAH Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam A good poll MadaniSister. I very rarely make a complaint , if I am not satisfied with anything i.e. the service, in a shop or a train or bus then no I wouldn't make a complaint. I just feel I have better things to do with my time and let it be. Same with returns, I recently bought some bedding from a well known big store and when I opened the quilt and layed it out I saw it had a big massive slit/tear on the side, my daughter told me, she would take it back, but I said, no , I repaired the tear and used it . Thats what I'm like. I do sign petitions for good causes though if they fall in the same category, and make my feelings be known if I feel the cause is right and worth it.
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Post by ahmedabad on Apr 17, 2007 12:32:16 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
Sometimes if we dont complain how will things improve?
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Post by Sister Nomee on Apr 17, 2007 13:26:19 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
A good poll sister
Well I am going to be honest I do complain like brother ahmedabad says if we don't nothing will get done, and also depends who and what I am complaining about
I have made formal complaints also on one instance about the treatment my mum got from the hospital and we recieved a formal apology .
Like things being faulty like sister AR I can't be bothered to complain unless it something very expensive etc.
Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
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Post by ahmad786 on Apr 17, 2007 15:12:38 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
I complain, but only when i feel i need to, so theres nothing wrong with that.
I think its those who moan we should be targetting ?
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Walid
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Post by Walid on Apr 17, 2007 15:38:11 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa BarakatuhuI complain, but only when i feel i need to, so theres nothing wrong with that. I think its those who moan we should be targetting ? Sounds like your moaning ?
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Hafeez
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Post by Hafeez on Apr 17, 2007 17:43:24 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
I voted sometimes,
If it is a meal that has not been to my liking i try not to complain because i remember the less unfortunate.
I complain because we have a right to complain. If we buy something and we are not satisfied as customers then by all means complain
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Post by Muhammad Zaynul Abideen on Apr 17, 2007 20:09:09 GMT
I often do it when I'm sad or angry because I'm not in a mood and I feel like complaining
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Tasleem
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Post by Tasleem on Apr 18, 2007 17:32:46 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu,
Like the majority who have voted so far, I feel that the nature of the complaint depends on what it is for. Little unimportant things we can forgive and forget, but things that can cause danger to someone needs to be reported. We have a responsibilty to ensure that such things don't happen again!
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Post by PBUH on Apr 20, 2007 3:54:45 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
I am curious about how many (sorry sisters) brothers here have ever complained to the imam at their masjid over someat.
This should be interesting.
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Post by makki madani on Apr 21, 2007 20:06:26 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa BarakatuhuI am curious about how many (sorry sisters) brothers here have ever complained to the imam at their masjid over someat. This should be interesting. no i've never complained but there is sum brothers who always complain its their main job when they cum to the masjid
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star
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Post by star on Apr 22, 2007 15:02:25 GMT
Well i dont often complain but when I do i make sure im heard. ;D
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Post by suhayb on Apr 25, 2007 0:13:50 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
My vote went to when I'm not pleased. This is in relation to customer service etc... I work in this area and complaints are an important part of it. If you are doing something badly you need to be told. On the same hand you also need to compliment when you receive good service.
As far as complaining about food etc... then no I don't like to complain. If my dinner is something I don't really like then I just eat it. After all food is food and we should be thankful we have it.
Fi Amanillah
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Sabs
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Post by Sabs on Apr 25, 2007 20:57:26 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
A good poll but is arguing the same as complaining.
Its good to argue your point and stand your ground if you think your right but you cant say its the same as complaing.
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sajjad dar ashrafi
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Post by sajjad dar ashrafi on Apr 25, 2007 23:58:11 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
Interesting and now i think about it i think i complain a lot more than i should and inshallah try to complain less and be grateful to ALLAH for the good things i have got
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Post by ya habibi on May 12, 2007 11:01:24 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa BarakatuhuI am curious about how many (sorry sisters) brothers here have ever complained to the imam at their masjid over someat. This should be interesting. Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa BarakatuhuIt depends on what the masala is. We will not progress unless we complain, get answers, seek advice and opinion from the men of knowledge.
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Post by madnibrother786 on May 17, 2007 0:14:31 GMT
i dont understand what u asking??? Do u mean complain as in send email to ghulam bhai and say this n that has happened on the site n im not happy!!! Or do u mean complain as in 'Bloody hell what a boring day' ??
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MadaniSister
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Post by MadaniSister on May 17, 2007 11:08:41 GMT
i dont understand what u asking??? Do u mean complain as in send email to ghulam bhai and say this n that has happened on the site n im not happy!!! Or do u mean complain as in 'Bloody hell what a boring day' ?? Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem
ASALATU WASALAMU ALAYKA YA RASULLALLAH Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam
Complain over Anything Brother ie,Boring Day,about the Forum as you have stated,Not nice food from Takeaway,Not getting good service from doctors or hospital etc hope you understand this
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Post by Noor e Naqshband on May 18, 2007 13:08:03 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa BarakatuhuInteresting and now i think about it i think i complain a lot more than i should and inshallah try to complain less and be grateful to ALLAH for the good things i have got well said brother, im going to do the same thing
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Post by Muhammad Adam on May 26, 2007 11:50:24 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
i dont make any complaints i leave that to my sisters ;D
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