Post by KarimaFiroz on Mar 8, 2008 9:07:09 GMT
Salam,
I am in a big trouble. I would be very much thankful to you if you help me.
I got married on 28th Oct 2007.
After 15 days of our marriage we came to know that my husband's both kidneys are 70% damaged and now he is on dialysis. It was a big shock for us. After our marriage we were together for a week but that time we realized he used to have little breathing problem. I came to New York.
One of his best friends called me and he said he went with my husband for his medical checkup and doctor had asked him all about the family background. His mother was died 11 years back because of Kidney damaged and they came to know at the last stage. But doctor says that usually kidney problem we come to know at the last stage only and both the kidneys get affected. So doctor said it’s a heredity problem because his other two sister are also having some kidney relevant problem.
So December end I again went to India because my husband’s friends told me that doctor has asked for transplant and I didn't want my husband to face any problem so I went immediately so that I can donate my Kidney to him. My parents don't know all this.
My husband is scared of transplant because he thinks that it would be difficult after the dialysis.
My father-in-law is 72 years old and he used to live with my husband, he lie a lot. But he used to says and think only bad about everyone. He has now no relations with his brothers or any other relatives. His nature is very jealous. After marriage our friends invited us for lunch so he said if we go then he will leave home. My husband is very innocent he always listens to his father even if he says good or bad. So we stopped going out together. Then he said my husband that his wife (myself) was born on Tuesday that’s the reason he got sick. My husband told me but I was not born on Tuesday. Then he said he has great knowledge because of that he get to know many things. Whatever we do he knows.
Then he called some maulana who has some power and known about Jinn. He said I got some Jinn affect. I replied I don't have anything. I do read Quran since my childhood. I do pray everyday and read AayatulQursi morning and night but still you wanna do something I am ready for that because I love my husband. That maulana came 2-3 times to our place did something but nothing had happened to me. My father-in-law always used to say bad about me to my husband and other people also. I used to work US time (night time) and day time used to work in kitchen. He never let any servant to come home, he used to fight with them also.
I came to New York to work. I spoke to my husband and he said there is another Imam / Maulana who is saying that since my birth time Jinn had attacked me and he doesn’t want anyone to be involve in my life so that he is troubling my husband. He has advised my husband to stay away from me at least for 6 months. I know my husband love me lot but he listen to his father too. I am in a big problem and not able to think anything. Everyday I pray to Allah. Do I have Jinn effect?
My question is my mother-in-law died because of similar problem but I was not there. My sister-in-laws operated but I was not there and their first marriage was broken also. All this time I was not there then why should I get blamed?
Do you know anyone who can help me to explain my husband the truth? If possible please give me the contact information because I realy don't know these things.
Thanks a lot.
Allah Hafiz
Karima
I am in a big trouble. I would be very much thankful to you if you help me.
I got married on 28th Oct 2007.
After 15 days of our marriage we came to know that my husband's both kidneys are 70% damaged and now he is on dialysis. It was a big shock for us. After our marriage we were together for a week but that time we realized he used to have little breathing problem. I came to New York.
One of his best friends called me and he said he went with my husband for his medical checkup and doctor had asked him all about the family background. His mother was died 11 years back because of Kidney damaged and they came to know at the last stage. But doctor says that usually kidney problem we come to know at the last stage only and both the kidneys get affected. So doctor said it’s a heredity problem because his other two sister are also having some kidney relevant problem.
So December end I again went to India because my husband’s friends told me that doctor has asked for transplant and I didn't want my husband to face any problem so I went immediately so that I can donate my Kidney to him. My parents don't know all this.
My husband is scared of transplant because he thinks that it would be difficult after the dialysis.
My father-in-law is 72 years old and he used to live with my husband, he lie a lot. But he used to says and think only bad about everyone. He has now no relations with his brothers or any other relatives. His nature is very jealous. After marriage our friends invited us for lunch so he said if we go then he will leave home. My husband is very innocent he always listens to his father even if he says good or bad. So we stopped going out together. Then he said my husband that his wife (myself) was born on Tuesday that’s the reason he got sick. My husband told me but I was not born on Tuesday. Then he said he has great knowledge because of that he get to know many things. Whatever we do he knows.
Then he called some maulana who has some power and known about Jinn. He said I got some Jinn affect. I replied I don't have anything. I do read Quran since my childhood. I do pray everyday and read AayatulQursi morning and night but still you wanna do something I am ready for that because I love my husband. That maulana came 2-3 times to our place did something but nothing had happened to me. My father-in-law always used to say bad about me to my husband and other people also. I used to work US time (night time) and day time used to work in kitchen. He never let any servant to come home, he used to fight with them also.
I came to New York to work. I spoke to my husband and he said there is another Imam / Maulana who is saying that since my birth time Jinn had attacked me and he doesn’t want anyone to be involve in my life so that he is troubling my husband. He has advised my husband to stay away from me at least for 6 months. I know my husband love me lot but he listen to his father too. I am in a big problem and not able to think anything. Everyday I pray to Allah. Do I have Jinn effect?
My question is my mother-in-law died because of similar problem but I was not there. My sister-in-laws operated but I was not there and their first marriage was broken also. All this time I was not there then why should I get blamed?
Do you know anyone who can help me to explain my husband the truth? If possible please give me the contact information because I realy don't know these things.
Thanks a lot.
Allah Hafiz
Karima
