T1
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Post by T1 on Sept 21, 2004 10:27:17 GMT
I need the help of the Imam
I have recently got married and have been having a few minor problems with married life - we are happy together. We had an arguement and in anger i muttered talak 3 times - i did not intend to nor did i really understand the significance of what i have said - we are happy and do not wish to seperate. Our niyyat is not to seperate.
Are we still married in the eyes of God?
Please help - youth in need of guidance.
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Post by Imam on Sept 23, 2004 13:52:02 GMT
Allah, with His Name i begin; The Most Compassionate, The Most Merciul.
All Praise is due to Allah alone, Salawat & Salam upon His Beloved Messenger, Dear Companions & Pure Ahl al-Bayt.
Assalamu 'alaykum,
Dear Brother in Islam,
[Advice: Always address the query in a general context, or use hypothetical names, irrespective of the question or query being actual, personal or hypothetical.]
So, the query would say:
What is the ruling in Shari'ah; Islamic Sacred Law, regarding a person who said so & so, or did so & so, (whatever the query maybe!).
In order to give a precise answer one needs to know the exact words used, which language, the number of times? Who was present at the time?
I await your response!
Salam wal Ikram,
And Allah, Most Majestic & Sublime & His Messenger, Salla Allahu 'alayhi wa Sallam, Know best.
Imam
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Post by T1 on Sept 23, 2004 16:19:25 GMT
Asalam u alaikum In relation to your question the young youth had an arguement with his wife and in the heat of the moment he stated the words talak 3 times - no one else was in the room at the time save for his wife who was shouting abuses at him in the heat of the moment. He totally lost his temper after putting up with constant unkind remarks After a while, once he calmed down he had realised what he had said but he knew he did not mean it. His niyyat was never to say what he had said. He has said and knows that it is just the start of the relationship and only teething problems. What should he do now? Salaam
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Post by Imam on Nov 24, 2004 19:44:15 GMT
Allah, with His Name I begin, The Most Compassionate, The Most Merciful.
From what I have read and understood from the query, the Youth's utterance of the word Talaq, three times in succession in the state of anger as described is binding and hence the Divorce effected. The Youth must immediately separate from his wife.
It is strongly suggested that in such circumstances one turns to the nearest learned Scholar or Mufti of the Ashrafi circles for direct and personal advice on this most delicate and urgent matter.
And, Allah Alone is all Knowing and Perfect.
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