moving out of my inlaws

[sisterayesha]

Salaam Alaikum

Im 21 and have a beautiful daughter and am pregnant again and living in my inlaws house which consists of my mother in law, sister in law, my husband and my husbands older brother and there nan

what i do in the house which is cook and clean aswell as care for my husband and daughter is unapreciated and moaned upon

i feel like i cant have emotion and that they treat me unfairly i feel my situation will destroy y marriage as i am at breaking point is there anything i can do to help the situation maybe a dua etc

thankyou

[Imam]

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu


All Praise be to Allah who is the Lord of the Worlds, and may Endless Blessings be showered upon His Most Beloved, and Final Messenger of Islam, Hadrat Muhammad Mustafa Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam

Yes, definitely sister. You must try to be patient, as 'Allah is with those who are patient'. You must make some future plans with your husband, about buying your own home, and living independently. You must make du'a, in front of Allah the Almighty to make your situation better, and to make you strong, so that in future, if you ever have to go through the same situation, you will sail through.

Please try to recite the following verse of the Qur'an, as much as possible:

'innallah ma'as sabirin'.

But you can only recite this verse as much as possible once you plan for your own independancy. That is to plan it for the sake of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala, by praying 5 times salah, helping your husband, by not getting too involved with you in-laws. Try reciting as much 'durud sharif' as possible, and start to recite the Qur'an every day. Insha'Allah there will be a time when Allah the Almighty will make all your good desires come true.

Please do not hesitate to post again, if in doubt, or your situation worstens.



Jazak'allah for your question.





Wallahu A'lamu Biththawaab


M. Waseem Ashrafi