Post by hanan24 on Sept 5, 2008 15:54:59 GMT
Aswk,
I am i a big problem.I am a muslim girl.Few months back i met a muslim boy and we were good proffesional friends.We use to talk daily and slowly slowly we came closer to each other.He pretended to be the most caring,Loving and understanding person on earth.I dont have my father and this guy use to care for me so much and use to show lot of sympathy.One day i introduced him with my mother.My mom said that she will get agree only when his parents will come.He told my mom that since his sister is getting married after 1 year so he cannot talk to his parents till his sister will get marry.
My mother said that we cannot wait for you for 1 year as my daughter is 24 years nd i have to make her marry.She said to him that "what if your parents donot agree after 1 year than what".
I was very hurted by all this.This guy told me one day that lets do nikkah and we wont tell it to any one.When my sister will get married i will disclose this thing to every one that we both are married.
I use to trust him a lot and we did nikah.
After few days he got transfered to another city.So he told me to search a job in the city where he got transfered.Luckily i got a job and i requested my mother to send me as it is a nice job.My mother was not aware that that boy is also there.
BUT i never thought that what will happen.When i started living with him he started beating me badly.He use to beat me with belts,But after beating me he use to say me sorry and use to cry.I never understood why he was doing so.
He wanted me to behave like an animal.He use to abuse me in front of his friends. he use to slap me so hardly that my cheeks use to swell.
I was so confused that i was unable to undrstand that why he is doing so.Than i realsied that he want me to disclose my nikah with him to my mother.I agreed to disclose this thing.
I called my mother and told her that i am maried to Him and i am living with him.
But i never knew that what was his moto behind disclosing my nikah with him to my mom.
Than he forced me to call my mom again and say her that i need money.My mom refused to give me money and she said to me that as your husband to give money to you,now you are his responsibility and not mine.
My god after listening to his words he beated me so badly,he tried to kill me by pressing my neck.i even bleeded from my mouth.I decided that either i will Comite suicite or i will run away.
He didnt even allowed me to go to office.One day I managed to run from there.
I went back to my home.Than i told every thing to my mother and we spoke to his parents.than he came at my palce and we did not opened the door.He started begging for forgivness.My mom told him that we will talk to you only when you will come with your father at our place.Now its been around 4 weeks that his parents are delaying the days.Every day they call and say that we will come after 2-3 days and they dont come.His sister is getting engaged in Eid so i think they are trying to pass the time so that there daughter can get engaged peacfully.
BUT NOW I AM FED UP.I HAVE DECIDED THAT IF THEY DONOT COME BY 1 WEEK I WILL LAUNCH AN FIR AGAINST HIM AND I WILL MAKE SURE THAT THERE DAUGHTER AND HIS SISTER DONOT GET MARRIED EVER.HOW CAN THEY MAKE THERE DAUGHTER'S LIFE BY SPOLING A LIFE OF ANOTHER GIRL.
I AM VERY CONFUSED I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO.GOING WITH HIM MEANS THAT LIVING A LIFE OF AN ANIMAL.HE WILL KILL ME.I AM A GIRL AND I THINK THAT NO ONE WILL ACCEPT ME AFTER KNOWING ALL THIS SO SOME TIMES I FEEL .... PLASE TELL ME WHAT IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO.
My email id: hanan_km@rediffmail.com
Allah hafiz
I am i a big problem.I am a muslim girl.Few months back i met a muslim boy and we were good proffesional friends.We use to talk daily and slowly slowly we came closer to each other.He pretended to be the most caring,Loving and understanding person on earth.I dont have my father and this guy use to care for me so much and use to show lot of sympathy.One day i introduced him with my mother.My mom said that she will get agree only when his parents will come.He told my mom that since his sister is getting married after 1 year so he cannot talk to his parents till his sister will get marry.
My mother said that we cannot wait for you for 1 year as my daughter is 24 years nd i have to make her marry.She said to him that "what if your parents donot agree after 1 year than what".
I was very hurted by all this.This guy told me one day that lets do nikkah and we wont tell it to any one.When my sister will get married i will disclose this thing to every one that we both are married.
I use to trust him a lot and we did nikah.
After few days he got transfered to another city.So he told me to search a job in the city where he got transfered.Luckily i got a job and i requested my mother to send me as it is a nice job.My mother was not aware that that boy is also there.
BUT i never thought that what will happen.When i started living with him he started beating me badly.He use to beat me with belts,But after beating me he use to say me sorry and use to cry.I never understood why he was doing so.
He wanted me to behave like an animal.He use to abuse me in front of his friends. he use to slap me so hardly that my cheeks use to swell.
I was so confused that i was unable to undrstand that why he is doing so.Than i realsied that he want me to disclose my nikah with him to my mother.I agreed to disclose this thing.
I called my mother and told her that i am maried to Him and i am living with him.
But i never knew that what was his moto behind disclosing my nikah with him to my mom.
Than he forced me to call my mom again and say her that i need money.My mom refused to give me money and she said to me that as your husband to give money to you,now you are his responsibility and not mine.
My god after listening to his words he beated me so badly,he tried to kill me by pressing my neck.i even bleeded from my mouth.I decided that either i will Comite suicite or i will run away.
He didnt even allowed me to go to office.One day I managed to run from there.
I went back to my home.Than i told every thing to my mother and we spoke to his parents.than he came at my palce and we did not opened the door.He started begging for forgivness.My mom told him that we will talk to you only when you will come with your father at our place.Now its been around 4 weeks that his parents are delaying the days.Every day they call and say that we will come after 2-3 days and they dont come.His sister is getting engaged in Eid so i think they are trying to pass the time so that there daughter can get engaged peacfully.
BUT NOW I AM FED UP.I HAVE DECIDED THAT IF THEY DONOT COME BY 1 WEEK I WILL LAUNCH AN FIR AGAINST HIM AND I WILL MAKE SURE THAT THERE DAUGHTER AND HIS SISTER DONOT GET MARRIED EVER.HOW CAN THEY MAKE THERE DAUGHTER'S LIFE BY SPOLING A LIFE OF ANOTHER GIRL.
I AM VERY CONFUSED I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO.GOING WITH HIM MEANS THAT LIVING A LIFE OF AN ANIMAL.HE WILL KILL ME.I AM A GIRL AND I THINK THAT NO ONE WILL ACCEPT ME AFTER KNOWING ALL THIS SO SOME TIMES I FEEL .... PLASE TELL ME WHAT IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO.
My email id: hanan_km@rediffmail.com
Allah hafiz
