Problems with husband and in-laws

[hebam786]

assalamu alykum imam saahab
i want to ask one question
i was married in year 2006
my husband and inlaws are not good people
they r very cruel
i had 105 degree fever when i was expecting a baby
no one had done care 4 me
now,they r thinking of my husbands second marriage
i don't want to go there
they r killer of my baby
if i will go there they will kill me
what should i do?
i don't understand anything
pls give me some advice

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[Imam]

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu


All Praise be to Allah who is the Lord of the Worlds, and may Endless Blessings be showered upon His Most Beloved, and Final Messenger of Islam, Hadrat Muhammad Mustafa Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam

If you feel that your husband should not be marrying again, because you and he want to lead a simple Islamic life, then it is best that you explain this to your husband, before you take any further action.

If however you feel that your husband has turned away from you, and against you, is causing you harm, and hardship, his inlaws are causing you difficulty as well, and that you did not know about this at the time of your marriage, and now they have, and he has changed, and there is very little you can do to change their ways, as all avenues are now blocked, then you could ask him to divorce you, so that you can either seperate away from them for the safety of your own good, or you can get re-married to a different caring person, who will look after you and your baby, by the will of Allah the Almighty.

You may ask for a 'khula', in which the shar'iyyah sets out the methods and the means by which you may attain your divorce, and can be sought through the appropriate channels of people. He will be liable to you for not looking after his family, the care of his children, and the general maintenance of his marriage.

This is the only avenue which is possibly open to you if you feel this. Although it is harsh, it in the least will prevent you from not being cared for.

May Allah the Almighty, keep us all upon the Straight Path, wherever we follow His religion.

Please do not hesitate to post again, in the event of further doubt.


Jazak'allah for your question.





Wallahu A'lamu Biththawaab


M. Waseem Ashrafi