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Post by malaikah on Oct 27, 2008 22:22:26 GMT
AsSalam Alaikum there is a naik person who my family goes to....years ago he told my grandpa(Allah bakhshe) that my grandpa will die in his 70s...and my grandpa died when he was 79 he told another person i know that he will die in his 40..and that person died when he was 46 there are alot of persons who has been told about their death by that Wali/shaykh... i actually dont understand how a naik person can do things like this Some months ago i was in pakistan..and it was the first time i met him..i actually didnt know it was him...but after some time he suddenly told me about my death age...it schocked me,because i didnt even ask him... since that day i have been depressed...i cant be happy, i cant smile..im always depressed..because i think about the death all the time...i feel terrible..and the thing is im very young, and im already so depressed....i just cant get over it is there anything u can recomend for me?...is there anything i can do to overcome my fear?.. what scares me even more is that he was always right about the ages...so i got no chance... i never used to care about death before..but this has tore me apart...im falling apart...im dying inside...im crying all day long... my parents doesnt understand whats wrong with me....they get tensed bcuz they see me crying all the time please help me... Allah hafiz
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Post by Imam on Nov 23, 2008 16:15:24 GMT
Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa BarakatuhuAll Praise be to Allah who is the Lord of the Worlds, and may Endless Blessings be showered upon His Most Beloved, and Final Messenger of Islam, Hadrat Muhammad Mustafa Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam Dont worry about anything. Just make sure that you re-invent your own fate. You can do this by performing your daily 5 times salah, making du'a in front of Allah the Almighty that He grants you a long life to worship He. So that you can have children and they too can follow in your footsteps, so that they too can live long lives. The death age of a person does not necessarily lie in the hands of a person. It lies in the hands of Allah the Almighty, so be close to Him, (just like that shaykh) but dont go round telling everybody how long they will live, ask for the things I have mentioned above, and once you commit to this sort of lifestyle, insha'Allah, Allah the Almighty will grant your du'as to become true. Its not a matter of becoming ill depressed, or crying. You will be fine insha'Allah. Jazak'allah for your question. Wallahu A'lamu BiththawaabM. Waseem Ashrafi
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