Post by saadia on Nov 15, 2008 7:02:52 GMT
Assalamu Alaykum,
I am a married women and living in a joint family. I need guidance as I am facing an issue of divorce which is as follows:
> I got married on 16th of March 2008.
1. In the beginning of April 2008, my husband pronounced the first divorce while i was having periods and we were alone in the room. We reconciliated in 2 days
2. In the end of April 2008, he gave me 2nd divorce in extreme anger due to a family dispute. On that day I hadn't taken bath after last night's marital activity. We reconciliated in few hours
3. On 31st May 2008, we had a fight due to a family matter and we both were angry. This time i went insane too and without understanding what i am saying I asked him to divorce and he gave me a third divorce (more than 9 or 10 times) unwillingly ( without wanting to leave me) under this pressure and anger upon my demand. I was totally insane at that time when and whom I was asking this and wasn't aware of what I was asking for. After few days we found out that I am pregnant and we reconciliated in a week
4. On 29th of July due to family dispute we had a quarell and we started living separately. He sent me a tripple divorce in writing on 9th of September 2008 while I am pregnant. Later on he repented very much for his action and on 15th of October he asked me if we could reconciliate
Sir its just that we both love each other very much. We have now identified the cause of dispute which always is based on misunderstandings and we both want to reconciliate desperately especially for our child so please tell us if there is any way for us both to reconciliate.
I am a married women and living in a joint family. I need guidance as I am facing an issue of divorce which is as follows:
> I got married on 16th of March 2008.
1. In the beginning of April 2008, my husband pronounced the first divorce while i was having periods and we were alone in the room. We reconciliated in 2 days
2. In the end of April 2008, he gave me 2nd divorce in extreme anger due to a family dispute. On that day I hadn't taken bath after last night's marital activity. We reconciliated in few hours
3. On 31st May 2008, we had a fight due to a family matter and we both were angry. This time i went insane too and without understanding what i am saying I asked him to divorce and he gave me a third divorce (more than 9 or 10 times) unwillingly ( without wanting to leave me) under this pressure and anger upon my demand. I was totally insane at that time when and whom I was asking this and wasn't aware of what I was asking for. After few days we found out that I am pregnant and we reconciliated in a week
4. On 29th of July due to family dispute we had a quarell and we started living separately. He sent me a tripple divorce in writing on 9th of September 2008 while I am pregnant. Later on he repented very much for his action and on 15th of October he asked me if we could reconciliate
Sir its just that we both love each other very much. We have now identified the cause of dispute which always is based on misunderstandings and we both want to reconciliate desperately especially for our child so please tell us if there is any way for us both to reconciliate.