Shouting 'talaq' in anger

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Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

ASALATU WASALAMU ALAYKA YA RASULLALLAH Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam.

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Brother Muhammad Arif have problem :

Seeking Fatwa and advice for the following issue.

Respected Sir, A few days ago,me and my wife had a heated verbal fight about a family issue, we both raised voices in extreme anger. Neither of us was controlling his or hers anger and we were shouting at each other sencelessly. Suddenly I dont know what happened to me, in extreme anger, I shouted out these words \"May ne tumhay talaq di...talaq di...talaq di \"( i.e I divorced her 3 times) .

Sir, this happened without any intention and without any pre plan. I was not able to control my anger and I was not aware of what I was saying and was not able to stop myself uttering these words, at that time. It did not came to my mind even once that I was uttering these words or I will utter these words.

Let me assure you that we had not a single resentment previously nor any resentment is been carried forward, all this happened suddenly and in a state of extreme anger.

I am a Sunni Muslim ( Hanafi ) and I regret very much of what I have done.To inform you more, I was having no intension or any plan to divorce her and nor I have any plan in future. All this happened only in the state of extreme anger .

Even while composing this letter my heart is crying and my eyes are filled with tears. Since then I am searching on the internet regarding this issue and I am getting confusing replies. I don’t want to lose her and we are God fearing people and for the sake of Allah please help me and guide me and also put light on this divorce , if it is valid or not, for which act of kindness I shall ever remain grateful to you. We have 2 children and we extremely love them ..

All I want is your sincere advice and show me the right way. It is also requested not to reveal my identity. Please treat this as an urgent matter and reply me at your soonest.

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Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu


All Praise be to Allah who is the Lord of the Worlds, and may Endless Blessings be showered upon His Most Beloved, and Final Messenger of Islam, Hadrat Muhammad Mustafa Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam

It is quiet simple, as you may have had the answers from previous searches, that if a man gives his women 3 divorces which are express, like you have stated in your statement, then it is the three that will occur, regardless of the fact of any resentment, tears, apology etc.

The Qur'an has stated that:

'attalaqu marratan'

'There are two divorces afterwhich the man can tell his wife, to either stay or leave'

After that, the third talaq will give complete divorce, especially if they are given together, at once, and in the manner that you gave them in.

There is no further relationship, no sexual relations, no seeing each other, no talking, no speaking, nothing.

These rules are express, and can be found in all the books of fiqh. Especially in the books of Hanafi fiqh.


Jazak'allah for your question.





Wallahu A'lamu Biththawaab


M. Waseem Ashrafi