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Post by tabinda on Feb 1, 2009 22:37:00 GMT
AOA, u never replied to my email
Assalam O Alaikum..
I m dropping u this email from Kuwait.. I m forcefully engaged to my cousin. I did not say yes when my parents asked for proposal..
I love someone else who is pious, educated, religious and belongs to a strong family. He loves me too and have asked for my hand from my parents but they refused.
On the other hand my Khala is a selfish lady and she asked for my hand just for money and i knw his son cannot keep me happy in anyways he's not educated..
I m beaten by my brother and my father. My mother is all the time swearing me.. I still keep refusing to marry my cousin.
Please give me some wazaif to recite. I m under stress..
I knw that a Muslim girl can refuse a proposal that is against her will.
Please help me out. i need wazaif to recite.and please pray for me.
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Post by Imam on May 17, 2009 16:01:30 GMT
Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem
Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
All Praise be to Allah who is the Lord of the Worlds, and may Endless Blessings be showered upon His Most Beloved, and Final Messenger of Islam, Hadrat Muhammad Mustafa (Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa aalihi wa Sallam)
Jazak'Allah for your question.
Have you told your parents, about the person who is pious, educated, and religious and gone down all the avenues about not having to marry a person who may be a detriment to your life, if that how serious it is?
If you have, and they have disagreed, then what have they said? You can post me back with an answer.
On the other hand, have you ever thought that if you marry this person who is your cousin, that your life would change in any way, shape or form? That it just might be that what you thought before you were married, no longer remained what you thought before you were married?
That Allah the Almighty is the Provider of all things which come from Him, good or bad, better or for the worst, that by remembering Him, changes can happen.
If you believe this, then it is highly inevitable, that something which you are thinking about right now, may or may never change, even though what I have stated is true. This is the best interest.
Please, speak to your mum, and tell her exactly how you feel, or even your father, if it is easier, and see what sort of answer they come up with.
Please dont forget to post me back, and tell me what the result is. I would like to know.
Wallahu A'lamu Biththawaab
M. Waseem Ashrafi
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