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Post by bulbulehmadina on Dec 18, 2009 20:36:33 GMT
Stated by Maulana, if you can refrain from anger for 40 days you will have passed a great test. If you can successfully stay away from being angry, anger will assault you less frequently. If you can carry on doing this shaitan will announce to his helpers: "Don't bother attacking this person, you are just wasting your time and energy. His defenses are impenetrable: one-thousand attacks are just as futile as one. leave him alone, he has escaped from our hands". Shaitan's helpers are the selfish ego, vain desires and worldliness; these are our four great enemies, and whoso learns to control his anger will be victorious against these base influences. Hope it helps, really helped me  |
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Duniya kare par tu na karna muj ko rad.. Ya Allah..
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Post by Bint e Attar on Dec 18, 2009 20:55:23 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa BarakatuhuJazakAllah Khair for sharing.. InshaAllah Azwajal I'll try to follow this for atleast 40 days..
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Post by Sister Nomee on Dec 18, 2009 21:58:02 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa BarakatuhuGreat post shared sister bulbulemadina, we can try to pass the anger test may prove alittle difficult with young children  Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
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Post by Ayesha on Dec 19, 2009 12:34:05 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhuthat's really great post thanx for sharing sister  :oMay Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'alaprotect us all from our own egos,desires  and keep us always on the path of righteous persons ameen
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Post by bulbulehmadina on Dec 19, 2009 13:25:17 GMT
Ameen;
I know sister Nomee it does prove difficult but just keeping it in your mind it really does help.
Gradually you tend to realise that anger is not the solution to our problems!
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Post by Sag E Dargah E Jilani on Dec 19, 2009 15:16:07 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa BarakatuhuGood post by sister bulbaleymadina Jazakallah Khayrun Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
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Post by abubakr786 on Dec 20, 2009 0:40:39 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa BarakatuhuGood post by sister bulbaleymadina Jazakallah Khayrun Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu Dear respected brother, Is there any reason you write Khayrun instead of Khayran? I remember reading a topic on another site where a brother mentioned it was wrong. I hope you can teach me brother? You seem very knowledgeable. JazakAllah Khairan |
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Post by Sag E Dargah E Jilani on Dec 20, 2009 8:53:57 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa BarakatuhuGood post by sister bulbaleymadina Jazakallah Khayrun Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu Dear respected brother, Is there any reason you write Khayrun instead of Khayran? I remember reading a topic on another site where a brother mentioned it was wrong. I hope you can teach me brother? You seem very knowledgeable. JazakAllah Khairan No dear brother I dont know how it is wrong.  But by all means show us that post so that I can correct my ways. No dear brother you got that wrong again. I am not very knowledgeable at all. I am not even the dust under the feet of an Alim. Jazakallah Khayrun Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu |
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Post by abubakr786 on Dec 20, 2009 14:04:21 GMT
No dear brother I dont know how it is wrong. But by all means show us that post so that I can correct my ways. No dear brother you got that wrong again. I am not very knowledgeable at all. I am not even the dust under the feet of an Alim. Jazakallah Khayrun Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu I can't find it now, but there was a post on sunni talk where a brother said it should be KhayrAN and not KhayrUN. I personally don't understand it. I am not very knowledgeable. All I know is that we use "JazakAllah" because the Prophet Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wa Alehi Waslam taught us to say it, and we were taught khayrAN not khayrUN: I think it is in Sunan al-Tirmidhi Whoever has something good done for him, then one says in reply to the good doer JazakAllah KharAN then he has indeed conveyed his thanks. So I think we should follow the Hadith in this case my brother. It is KhayrAN and not KhayrUN. I think there is some Arabic Grammar reason too but I don't know Arabic and am very ignorant. JazakAllah Khayran |
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Post by Sag E Dargah E Jilani on Dec 20, 2009 19:31:35 GMT
No dear brother I dont know how it is wrong. But by all means show us that post so that I can correct my ways. No dear brother you got that wrong again. I am not very knowledgeable at all. I am not even the dust under the feet of an Alim. Jazakallah Khayrun Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu I can't find it now, but there was a post on sunni talk where a brother said it should be KhayrAN and not KhayrUN. I personally don't understand it. I am not very knowledgeable. All I know is that we use "JazakAllah" because the Prophet Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wa Alehi Waslam taught us to say it, and we were taught khayrAN not khayrUN: I think it is in Sunan al-Tirmidhi Whoever has something good done for him, then one says in reply to the good doer JazakAllah KharAN then he has indeed conveyed his thanks. So I think we should follow the Hadith in this case my brother. It is KhayrAN and not KhayrUN. I think there is some Arabic Grammar reason too but I don't know Arabic and am very ignorant. JazakAllah Khayran Yes dear brother its Khayran. Well Jazaakallah Khayran for correcting me. However if you see that post again on sunnitalk (by the way I thought your not a member there ) you let the guy know that its not Jazakallah Khayran. Its Jaza akallah Khayran according to the hadith shareef. Here I will show you the arabic form After the zaal there is a alif which means we should pronounce like a kh'li zabar. (By making a little long) If it was only zabar then it would be Jazakallah Khayran. Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu |
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Post by abubakr786 on Dec 20, 2009 21:02:49 GMT
Yes dear brother its Khayran. Well Jazaakallah Khayran for correcting me. However if you see that post again on sunnitalk (by the way I thought your not a member there ) you let the guy know that its not Jazakallah Khayran. Its Jaza akallah Khayran according to the hadith shareef. Here I will show you the arabic form After the zaal there is a alif which means we should pronounce like a kh'li zabar. (By making a little long) If it was only zabar then it would be Jazakallah Khayran. Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu I am not from there. I visited that site and seen the thread just like you have. Are you from there by any chance my knowledgeable my brother? By the way, there is no ZAAL, there is a ZAA'. That is a good point though, you should go there and post it, to let him know. I don't have an account but I am a regular visitor there. Wassalam I also visit Ya Nabi com and Marifah Net but am not a member of either of them. JazakAllah for the useful knowledge sharing brother. You should train to be a scholar, Insha'Allah. |
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Post by Sag E Dargah E Jilani on Dec 20, 2009 22:08:13 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
Thanks for correcting me.
Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
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Post by faizaneraza on Dec 23, 2009 12:27:37 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
nice shairng
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Ki Nighabani Mein!
and keep us always on the path of righteous persons ameen
But by all means show us that post so that I can correct my ways. 
