Post by roshi on Apr 20, 2007 16:22:30 GMT
assalamualaikkum,
mine is arrange marriage for over 5yrs,settled in middle east now Alhamduillah!i
have son under 24 months after many abortion. after marriage i came to KNOW
hubby is alcoholic and his family(his mom,5brothers and 3sisters) supports
even his brother drinks.it.his home in india and in middle east sourrended by christian friends and muslims who drinks alcohol.i thought i can change
his habit and he prays only on fridays.i gave him all my 7yrs to quit
alcohol and he didn't do even during 3abortion and after having loving
son still he doesn't say yes to quit.in india he is a member in club
for life long.
iam scared of my son future he says we that is my
brother(elder) even had a talk he(hubby) is telling me that nobody can
force him to change it has to come from his mind. tell me what to do
brother? he makes innocent face and i don't know what he will do?why
doesn't he sacrifies bad habit for the family???hes telling me and my
brother weather he has to write in a paper that i won't drink and i will
start to pray .he is not telling me that he will quit.hes just telling
iam not drinking.in what sense i will take brother. I LOVE HIM SO MUCH
.AFTER HEARING MY FEELINGS.HE HAS HELPING TENDENCY WHICH I LIKE BUT WHAT
ABOUT ISLAMIC WAY OF LIFE? he sometime tells if u change me then will tell u r a lady iam confused.sometime i feel why to suffer like this .i hate the smell of alcohol ..i just want to know weather its my mistake????plz answer me in detail brother?
WHAT DO U THINK IT IS PERMISSIBLE TO
STAY WITH ALCOHOLIC HUBBY THAT TOO FOR MY SON SAKE?
BROTHER PLZ REPLY MY MAIL AS SOON AS POSSIBLE WHICH WILL HELP ME TO
TAKE DECISION.
mine is arrange marriage for over 5yrs,settled in middle east now Alhamduillah!i
have son under 24 months after many abortion. after marriage i came to KNOW
hubby is alcoholic and his family(his mom,5brothers and 3sisters) supports
even his brother drinks.it.his home in india and in middle east sourrended by christian friends and muslims who drinks alcohol.i thought i can change
his habit and he prays only on fridays.i gave him all my 7yrs to quit
alcohol and he didn't do even during 3abortion and after having loving
son still he doesn't say yes to quit.in india he is a member in club
for life long.
iam scared of my son future he says we that is my
brother(elder) even had a talk he(hubby) is telling me that nobody can
force him to change it has to come from his mind. tell me what to do
brother? he makes innocent face and i don't know what he will do?why
doesn't he sacrifies bad habit for the family???hes telling me and my
brother weather he has to write in a paper that i won't drink and i will
start to pray .he is not telling me that he will quit.hes just telling
iam not drinking.in what sense i will take brother. I LOVE HIM SO MUCH
.AFTER HEARING MY FEELINGS.HE HAS HELPING TENDENCY WHICH I LIKE BUT WHAT
ABOUT ISLAMIC WAY OF LIFE? he sometime tells if u change me then will tell u r a lady iam confused.sometime i feel why to suffer like this .i hate the smell of alcohol ..i just want to know weather its my mistake????plz answer me in detail brother?
WHAT DO U THINK IT IS PERMISSIBLE TO
STAY WITH ALCOHOLIC HUBBY THAT TOO FOR MY SON SAKE?
BROTHER PLZ REPLY MY MAIL AS SOON AS POSSIBLE WHICH WILL HELP ME TO
TAKE DECISION.