shaadi topic confusedd

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salaam to all, i needed u r help, i like this guy n wan tto get married to him but my mom refuses him, he is muslim same background as mine n happens to be a far realated to me from my dad n mom side. mom says he is short n ugly ,I seem lost n confused. mom n i fight about the topic. dont knw wah to do we like each other alot, he lives far from me, we tak on phone. i wanted to knw is there some ayyat or verse from the quran i can read to get my mom to change her mind or agree wiht my decision. i am lost pllz i need advice....
jazakallah
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[Imam]

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu


All Praise be to Allah who is the Lord of the Worlds, and may Endless Blessings be showered upon His Most Beloved, and Final Messenger of Islam, Hadrat Muhammad Mustafa Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam

Why dont you get married to someone who you like, and your mum likes as well. The reason why I say this is because after you marry this guy, then you dont want any contoversies just because you married a guy of your choice, and your mum didnt approve of him.

Besides you should marry with your parents consent, as this has there permission, and their blessing. They know what is best for you, and how it is you will prosper.

Finally, I think that it is just a phase in your life which you are going through. Everyone goes through this. Not just you. After a year or two it will be over and you would have forgotten about it. I dont want you to make a committment, and then regret it for the rest of your life. I want whats the best for you.

Please consider my advice. I will make du'a, and you make du'a also. Dont forget to pray your 5 times salah, as this will give you more than what you intend.


Jazak'allah for your question.





Wallahu A'lamu Biththawaab


M. Waseem Ashrafi