find husband w/ sugar daddy's sponsor: how barakah

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Assalaamu `alaykum wr wb

I have question which the problem is serious. I have a friend, let say her nickname is AA, a married woman,niqabi. Her sister KK is a divorced woman and live in develop country.In the past, KK live jahiliya for many years, she like clubbing,khamar,zina & had white boyfriend who was non-muslim & rich too. She couldn't marry him coz he was non-muslim. Then she changed, start wearing hijab,in hope she could get marry, but not with local man (with brown skin) coz she really like to have white(caucasian) man as husband, and rich too. So she really hope to marry a white revert muslim who is only from rich country and could bring her to live in the country too. Because it is not easy to find white man who would like to marry her in her country, so she planned to travel to UK. KK contact her sister's husband male relative in UK (nickname HH) so that HH could help her to get family sponsor visa & let her to stay there for 6 months. HH agree to help her. UK is her dream country, and she will work illegally with tourist visa for 6 month there & her main intention is to search for white UK man citizen. She said to her sister AA that she wants to find white man who is rich, handsome, and revert muslim, so that can get marry & she can get P.R. AA wished her sister good luck for that. It seem KK want to take off hijab in UK eventhough he sister advice her to keep the hijab.Eventhough KK seem turn to Islam life, but she still keep in touch with her non-muslim rich ex-boyfriend until now. She get flight ticket free to UK from her ex-boyfriend. She didn't tell her ex that she wanna come to UK to search for man for marriage purpose, just telling him that she want to find job there. AA also seem excited to see her sister to go to UK for family or material status. As a friend of KK's sister, AA, I was asking AA, why she as a niqabi which we know as good person, she give support to her sister to come to UK-- alone, sponsored by HH, facing with too much fitna, and the worst is, KK still keep in touch with her non-muslim ex-bf (a man who she did many times zina) and got free flight ticket from him.
If KK really sincere to be a good muslima, she would avoid to keep in touch with her ex, and ho gets flight ticket from her ex-bf(the man who she did zina) use it to go to UK to find white husband, and how that could be Barakah while the ticket is from her zina man and use it to travel to find rich revert muslim white man of UK citizen for marriage. If KK's future husband knew this, that would really hurt him. AA as a niqabi woman keep support KK to go to UK to find rich white, eventho she knows KK with face fitna that KK will take off hijab and go around and tempt or attract any men in 6 months stay using visa, so that she can get marry and can get p.resident. Im so upset with AA, that as good muslima she should has better advice, that stopping her sister from going there but she keep supporting her. AA also told me that she also wish her sister KK get marry with rich man. Does materialistic life blind her heart? KK's family life in her country is good enough, why still choose a way which may shatter her iman? Maybe nothing wrong to travel to UK, but in her situation, really need your opinion and advice. What do you think about this problem and this whole situation in Islamic way? How far is permitted in Islam and the barakah issue too. I told AA how could her sister KK want to find husband in this way, but AA just ignore and she kept encourage her sister to travel t UK alone (her wali can't travel, actually KK want to travel alone due to financial limit because UK is her dream country, and intend to take off her hijab too) and work illegally for awhile, find rich man, and say nothing abt her sister who use the flight ticket that she got from a non-muslim man that she did zina with for many years(sugar daddy?) and use the ticket to travel to UK to find revert muslim white citizen rich husband. Pls advice. Advice from alim is appreciated.

[Imam]

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu


All Praise be to Allah who is the Lord of the Worlds, and may Endless Blessings be showered upon His Most Beloved, and Final Messenger of Islam, Hadrat Muhammad Mustafa Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam

If kk is truly devoted to the religion of Islam, she should observe and practice the rules set by the shar'iyyah. Under no circumstances can she commit adultery with another man, unless she is married, nor can she have the intention of marrying a non-Muslim by obtaining a visa to live in the U.K., nor can she have the freedom which you say she used to have in her past times. She should be completely disconnected from the man that she used to commit adultery with. She should ammend her intention of wishing to marry a white man who is a non Muslim, for the sake of obtaining stay in the U.K., and she should be truly devoted to the religion of Islam, totally, with her mind body and soul, so that everything she does is purely for the sake of Allah the Almighty, and His Beloved Messenger Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam. If these conditions are not met, then she has no use of being a Muslim, because to commit sin, knowingly, and without prevention, leads to misbelief, which is kufr.

I hope that you will speak to this lady, and really explain to her that Islam is not a joke, which allows you to do whatever the self desires. But is a religion which has laws for the whole of humanity which must be followed and observed. There is no materialistic world related to Islam, only that by which Muslims obtain a means of living by. I hope that what you tell this sister, does have an affect on her and that eventually she changes her ways and intention, otherwise she will be just like one of those people who bring a bad name to religion, even though she may claim to live by it.


Jazak'allah for your question.





Wallahu A'lamu Biththawaab


M. Waseem Ashrafi