forced in marriage

[ghazala]

assalam o alaikum imam saab,

i am in a big dilemma and need help so please help me. i was forced to marry someone i did not like in pakistan as they took me saying it was a cousins wedding, they emotionally blackmailed me so i had to give in now ive been married for 4yrs and dont live with my husband as a wife we sleep in seperate rooms and dont talk but my family will not allow a divorce yet even though i have asked i even told my husband before i married that i dont like him but he took no notice of me and just wanted to get the visa for the uk, and the rest of my family knew i was also unhappy. i had also told my mum i dont want to marry but they took no notice.
i like someone else i wanted to marry and do want to marry him still but his family is now looking for him and pressuring him so he has said he will have to accept it and walk away from me please help me and suggest what i should do i pray 5times a day and always do dua but i dont want to lose this person and i want to marry him please tell me if there is any wazifa i can read that we can get married and be together thankyou very much.
khudha hafiz

[Imam]

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu


All Praise be to Allah who is the Lord of the Worlds, and may Endless Blessings be showered upon His Most Beloved, and Final Messenger of Islam, Hadrat Muhammad Mustafa Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam

If you have been married once, then there is not a chance that the religion will allow you to marry a second time, unless a divorce has been given to you, by the will of your husband.

Sometimes people marry to a partner they may not even like, but they marry them for the benefit of the family, or the benefit of parents, or the class of people you come from. However to marry someone and say that now you do not like him, is too late for you to play with your own emotions.

The best thing to do is to pray your 5 times salah, ask Allah the Almighty for forgiveness, and ask Him to erase all your difficulties that you are going through. Insha'Allah He will accept what you are asking for, as long as you are being reasonable to Him, by not breaking His laws.

Try reciting the ayah-e-karimah at least 100 times a day. It will help you to relax, give you peace of mind, tranquility, harmony, and other great fortunes that you may not have even dreamed of. The ayah-e-karimah is:

'La ilaha illa anta subhana ka inni kuntu minaz zalimin'.

Insha'Allah, these negative feelings of wanting to marry someone else, breaking the marriage, rules, and breaking the wishes of your parents, shall all go away.


Jazak'allah for your question.





Wallahu A'lamu Biththawaab


M. Waseem Ashrafi