Post by abedlatif on Dec 15, 2007 21:26:18 GMT
Salaam Imam
MY question is that. I am having a difficult time with my family. I wish to marry a girl, who is divorced and who has a small child of 5. I am 26 so is the girl. My parents are not accepting this. They are saying that the girl is no good, since she is a divorcee and the small child will never accept me, even though the small child is happy with me. Mum and dad say to me that this marriage will fail in a years time, if I marry her without my parents permission. Imam what can I do? I wish to marry this person, but my parents are against it. They think what people will start saying if I marry a girl who has a child. she is also from a different cast, parents are not happy about that either, the child still has her father, and they say that will ruin my relationship with the child, even though the child see's me as a 2nd father. Imam is there anything I can say to my parents, from the Quran, or any advice you can give me, to tell them that there is nothing wrong with marrying a divorcee. My mum says she feels it inside that the marriage will fail, she says that if i marry this girl my dad will divorce my mum. I need your help imam, please give me some dua's/prayers i can read, to help resolve this situation and bring peace in the family.
MY question is that. I am having a difficult time with my family. I wish to marry a girl, who is divorced and who has a small child of 5. I am 26 so is the girl. My parents are not accepting this. They are saying that the girl is no good, since she is a divorcee and the small child will never accept me, even though the small child is happy with me. Mum and dad say to me that this marriage will fail in a years time, if I marry her without my parents permission. Imam what can I do? I wish to marry this person, but my parents are against it. They think what people will start saying if I marry a girl who has a child. she is also from a different cast, parents are not happy about that either, the child still has her father, and they say that will ruin my relationship with the child, even though the child see's me as a 2nd father. Imam is there anything I can say to my parents, from the Quran, or any advice you can give me, to tell them that there is nothing wrong with marrying a divorcee. My mum says she feels it inside that the marriage will fail, she says that if i marry this girl my dad will divorce my mum. I need your help imam, please give me some dua's/prayers i can read, to help resolve this situation and bring peace in the family.
