istikhara URGENT PLEASE

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Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

i've been broken up with my husband for over 2 yrs now. i'm confused of makin up with him as this is quite complicated i've done istihara on numerous occations but haven't got a clear answer yes/no.

as my sister is married to my eldest brother inlaw. reason for our break up in the first place was because they broke up and effected our relationship. now they've made up and want us to make up BUT i am scared what if they have another break up and we end up in the same situation as before. my husband is still in pakistan hasn't got his visa.

and father inlaw in phoning in tomarrow please advice asap

jazakallah

[Imam]

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu


All Praise be to Allah who is the Lord of the Worlds, and may Endless Blessings be showered upon His Most Beloved, and Final Messenger of Islam, Hadrat Muhammad Mustafa Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam

You have to be very careful in Islam, with such breakages, as words sometimes can take effect of a divorce occurring, especially if the breakage is over a long period of time. If however, there were no words exchanged then this will not apply.

The worst thing in the eyes of Allah the Almighty, is the divorce, so we have to try and avoid it, as much as possible. Since your sister is now on good terms with your brother in law, and it seems that you will become on good terms with your husband, you shouldnt really take any action which would otherwise jepeordise your relationship with your husband.

The point to mention here, is that your marriage with your husband is different to the marriage of your sisters, and this should not in any way, be a deciding factor, of whether your marriage should really exist or not, it should rather be independant of that.

I wish that everything works out for the best for you, and supplicate that Allah the Almighty safegards the sunna of His Beloved Messenger Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam, through the means of people like yourselves. (Amin).


Jazak'allah for your question.





Wallahu A'lamu Biththawaab


M. Waseem Ashrafi