please could you help

[myallahhelpme]

salam

im just writing becuz i need some help iv been with a guy for more then a year and he promised to marry me but wen he promosed to me, i desiced to tell him the truth about what had happen in my life before i met him i was only 14 wen i met a guy and he messed about with my head so much i needed up sleepin with him it was the only once and it was such a bit mestake , but i then relised i didnt wont to do it and i told him over and over again but he demanded for us to have sex with each other, later i relised it was such a big mastake and tried to pled forgiveness from Allah, hamdollah my lifes changed completly but i later told the guy im with now about whats happen and were stell together but now hes saying he cant be with a non-virgian im so upset and dont know what to do i loves him to bits iv been through so much and the thing is iv made 1 extrem mastake in my life and i choose if i wont to be with him the best way is to tell him the truth but now i dont know what to do... what shall i do? he says he luvs me but he dont know whats right i know i made a mestake n so has he we wont to move on from it n be together but hes findin it hard he dont know what to do ether

please help me

salam

[Imam]

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu


All Praise be to Allah who is the Lord of the Worlds, and may Endless Blessings be showered upon His Most Beloved, and Final Messenger of Islam, Hadrat Muhammad Mustafa Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam

As long as you are married to the guy you posted about thats fine. I dont see why he shouldnt accept you if you have changed or say you have changed, because he wanted to marry you, and not be upset, so why is he upset now?


Jazak'allah for your question.





Wallahu A'lamu Biththawaab


M. Waseem Ashrafi