Regarding...taking qur'an , hadiths extent?

[Hasinah]

Regarding my PAST question: ashraf786.proboards15.com/index.cgi?board=fiqh&action=display&thread=1139216794

Question # 4

4. A big question, a main concern, How much right does a brother have to his sisters privacy in general...? What if shes married?

What I forgot to mention I dont know if that makes a big differnece in this matter, but it was the fact that the sister is married, but her husband is still in pakistan (since marriage due to paperwork Visa etc ec.) and the sister is living with her brother, would ur response still be the same..? If not please do let me know what the differences would be.

Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

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Post edited to include previous related question.

[Imam]

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu



Praise be to Allah who is the Lord of the Worlds, and may Endless Blessings be showered upon His Most Beloved, and Final Messenger of Islam, Hadrat Muhammad Mustafa (Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam)


Jazak'Allah for your question. Actually it does make a big difference, to the sisters privacy in general, although her husband is still in Pakistan. The brother has no right whatsoever, once the sister is married, or in her private life, as she is now in possession of her own new household. That right belongs to the husband.


What she has as a family life, domestic life, new relations, new friends, is now it is deemed to be hers, as her brother has no say in these situations, as opposed to what the say, he may have had, towards similar people, prior to marriage. The reason being that the people whom the sister had once revolved around, have now changed, to her new ones i.e. her in-laws, and that it is the in-laws who now hold her responsibility, as being theirs.


Therefore as long as she does not contravene the rules of the shar'iyyah, she may speak to, withhold information, be in contact with, and communicate from within her in-laws to whom she wills, and she is not obliged to disclose any of it's infomation to her brothers or sisters, if she feels she doesnt have to. I hope that this answers the second post that you wrote to me, and that it does erase some of your doubts.


May Allah the Almighty, keep our family ties (old as well as new) eternal, and make them a means of salvation for us, in this world, and the hereafter. (Amin)



Wallahu A'lamu Biththawaab



M. Waseem Ashrafi