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Post by daughter in law on Jun 3, 2007 11:36:55 GMT
Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
REspected imam sahib,
My mother in law always cause problems for me.
If i offer prayer, she says that my parayers will never end.
If i do tasbih, she says her wazaif will never end.
The thing which i cook, she says it is not of good taste and that i made it intentionally bad taste.
When i clean the home, she says i did a poor cleaning.
When i sew her clothes, she says u ruin my clothes.
When i talk to her and other in laws in a polite way, she says that i want to show my husband that i am good while i am not.
If i drink milk, she says that i drank the whole milk.
If she see that i did not drink milk, she says that i add water in milk after drinking it.
If i eat something, she says that i eat all the good things.
She always whispers in my husband ears.
She does not waste any chance to tease me rather she is expert in creating chances.
She makes my life hell.
Pl. suggest something
jazakallaha
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Post by Imam on Jun 21, 2007 3:17:21 GMT
Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa BarakatuhuAll Praise be to Allah who is the Lord of the Worlds, and may Endless Blessings be showered upon His Most Beloved, and Final Messenger of Islam, Hadrat Muhammad Mustafa Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam Dear sister, I think based on what you have written you are most unfortunate that your mother in law is behaving in this manner ; never satisfied with what you do. Maybe your Mother-in-law is fearful of you taking away her son from her or maybe it was meant this way for you. There is a possibility that Allah the Almighty is testing you to see how much wisdom you have. He also maybe testing you to see how much patience, and tolerance you have. What I suggest to you, that in the days you are pure, you pray your five times salah, pray at least 100 verses of the Noble Qur'an every day, and recite as much Darood shareef as possible, so that you can get rid of any bad omen, or evil eye which mabe lurking against you. In addition to that try praying: 'ya da'imann bilaa fanaa'inn wa ya qa'imann bi la zawaalinn ya bashiru ya qadiru'This du'a is mainly to prevent oneself from an enemy, and should be recited every day, as much as possible, without delay. Jazak'allah for your question. Wallahu A'lamu BiththawaabM. Waseem Ashrafi
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