financial problems and family matters

[hamida]

Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu This is my first time sending you an email as i am very much upset and don't see any option. We are a very poor family, we live abroad but are still very poor. We don't even have a house of our own, we live in a very old, dusty house full of mice. My parents don't even have money to get us married as we really want to get married very soon. We are so poor that we don't even go to Pakistan; when my grandparents from mother and father's side passed away they weren't even able to see their faces. They were very upset but we didn't have money. We have really reached the age to get married and we also want to lead a normal live with children and happiness but we simply can't. People really make fun of our condition and that really hurts us so much. We are always living in distress. I just don't see any option and for that reason i am mailing you. My parents are so majboor and so are we(the children). If you would only see the house we're living in you would have notices our condition. We never go anywhere and can't spend money for food without thinking several times. Please for God's sake make dua for us and tell me any dua which is very effective so we can over win the problems. May Allah tahala bless you. Please reply soon. Allah hafiz.

[Imam]

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu



All Praise be to Allah who is the Lord of the Worlds, and may Endless Blessings be showered upon His Most Beloved, and Final Messenger of Islam, Hadrat Muhammad Mustafa (Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa aalihi wa Sallam)


Jazak'Allah for your question dear Sister in Islam. In order for your hardship to be erased, please refer to the following:


It is stated in the book called 'Mawahib ladunniyah' that a man came to the presence of the Beloved Messenger of Allah (Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam), and said that the world had turned away from me, to which the Messenger of Allah (Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam) replied:


"Pray the tasbih of the angels"


The man asked "What is the tasbih of the angels?"


The Beloved Messenger of Allah (Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam) said:


"After dawn in the morning, before the sun rises pray:


'Subhanallahi wa bi hamdi hi Subhanallahil 'azim' - 100 times"


After hearing this, the man went, and returned after a few days and stated:


"Oh Messenger of Allah (Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam), there is so much in my house now, that there is no room, anymore!"


Those two sentences are light upon reciting by the tongue, heavy upon the scales on Judgement Day, and Beloved to the Almighty. (Bukhari). Those two sentences above should be recited everyday to overcome any difficulty.


May Allah the Almighty help us to seek in His dhikr what is best for us, and may He keep us away from what is harmful to us (Amin).


Wallahu A'lamu Biththawaab



M. Waseem Ashrafi