My father has always been bad

[malaikah]

Hello dear Imaam Saahab…I wanted to ask you about my father
We have got problem with him as long as I remember…he has always been very strict….and by that I don’t mean strict by Islamic rules…he does what he wish for!

Me and my family, especially my mom..has been living in such a pain all our lives because of him..he has never loved mother or us children…
He is ALWAYS angry..he start screaming because of nothing….
and if we doesn’t listen to only one thing he told us to do..for example if he tells me to clean the kitchen..and I cant do it, or if I do it a little bit later…then he stops talking with us for months…he can stay mad at us for 3-4 months without any reason…he get mad at everyone, including my mom!
He never listen to us..not even my mom…
He does whatever pleasures him..like he is out with his friends all night..


Mother has tried to do wazifas for him in years…but nothing works..he is still the same..

Dear Imam sahab…is there anything You can recommend?….is there anything we all can recite?..We want him to be a nice peson…and stop being so strict and angry..We want him to listen to mom….and just let us to whatever we wish for…we cant live in such a pain anymore..
Please help us..

[Imam]

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu


All Praise be to Allah who is the Lord of the Worlds, and may Endless Blessings be showered upon His Most Beloved, and Final Messenger of Islam, Hadrat Muhammad Mustafa Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam

Have you ever tried sitting down altogether and talking to him? If that doesnt work, then try the following:

Recite surah Fatihah 100 times after Fajar on some food, and then give it to him for breakfast, Insha'Allah, if this is done by your mother, she will find him very polite, and mannerful, which will lead him being good mannered towards you also.


Jazak'allah for your question.





Wallahu A'lamu Biththawaab


M. Waseem Ashrafi