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Post by Sister Nomee on Oct 31, 2009 23:02:23 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
ASALATU WASALAMU ALAYKA YA RASULLALLAH Salla Allahu 'alayhi wa Sallam
The need to have a pir/spiritual guide is vital for guidance in Religious matters /spirituality needs and for success in the hereafter inshAllah.
Do share your valuable thoughts and opinions on how you came about choosing your Pir o Murshid?
JazakAllah khayrun.
Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
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Post by ali0009 on Oct 31, 2009 23:12:56 GMT
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Post by Noor e Naqshband on Oct 31, 2009 23:35:28 GMT
Bismillahir Rahmanir RaheemAssalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa BarakatuhuI firmly beleive that one does not choose his Peer Sahib, rather they choose their mureeds! Subhanallah! I voted other. Tand Seenay Pounda Ay Nazara Mere Peer Da! Fi Aminillah Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
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Post by PBUH on Oct 31, 2009 23:53:47 GMT
Salam, Interesting Poll. I think nowadays some people tend to be influenced by who freinds recommends and those who do media pir sahihbs, rather than who they think is right for them.
I think it should be a private thing and no one else need to know anything other than murid and guide. I dont think its something you decide to do, it just happens, you just know when the time is right.
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Post by Musafir on Nov 1, 2009 0:39:31 GMT
Assalaam Alaikum
It occurred to me that i should(take bayyah there) when in pakistan,then i said dua to Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala(definately) and then istighatha to Hadrat Gause e Azam Radi Allahu anhu(i do strongly believe,but cant remember exactly) to make it happen if it was good for me.
Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala then gave me opportunity to go and take bayyah,Alhamdulillah.
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Post by adee on Nov 1, 2009 6:58:57 GMT
No pir in my country and didnt even heard of them....  |
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Post by Sag E Dargah E Jilani on Nov 1, 2009 10:06:04 GMT
No pir in my country and didnt even heard of them.... Try and reaserch and find a shaykh and take oath with him if you feel your heart wants to. How are you by the way brother adnan?  I personally still havent taken oath to a shaykh yet. I have my heart set on one shaykh so maybe soon I will be a mureed inshallah. Do dua please. I think one should take bayah to a Peer who is kamil Wali. Also reaserch should be done about the Grandshaykh and Great Grandshaykhs. I agree with sister hajan also,that the peer chooses the mureed. Sister nomee a great poll indeed. Jazakallah Khayrun Wasalamu Alaykum |
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Post by Sister Nomee on Nov 1, 2009 15:04:07 GMT
No pir in my country and didnt even heard of them.... Yes The Wahabi regime in most Arab countries call it bidah/shirk, so they feel there is no need for a Pir Murshid Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu |
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Post by Shiraz Ashrafi on Nov 1, 2009 15:39:47 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
I wanted to tick nearly all the boxes but went for Spirituality and knowledge of the Peer O Murshid and the fact they have done so much for Islam.
A Good Poll
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Post by sanaqshi on Nov 1, 2009 16:52:58 GMT
i was recently with hadret allama pir alla uddin saddiqui madazilla alliyah and he said to me 3 things (qualities) make a person a kamil shaykh ilm, amal and ikhlaas
find a shaykh who knows his aqeedah, knows shariah and 3rdly has permission in tazkirah ul nafs (ilme tassawuf - sufi ways). A shaykh who is ignorent of his aqaid or the aqaid of ahle sunnah wal jamaat(can name a few so called present day shaykhs) he will not protect you from the hell fire. if he is ignorent of halaal wal haraam he will not be able to guide you away from partaining in actions that are unlawful therefore take you away from the torment of hellfire. if he has no understanding of the purification of the ego he will not be able to protect you from the unconscious shirk of the go.
every wali is an alim but not every alim is a wali
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Post by MadniMunna on Nov 1, 2009 17:38:33 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa BarakatuhuI wanted to tick nearly all the boxes but went for Spirituality and knowledge of the Peer O Murshid and the fact they have done so much for Islam. A Good Poll  |
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Post by Sister Nomee on Nov 1, 2009 22:25:36 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
ASALATU WASALAMU ALAYKA YA RASULLALLAH Salla Allahu 'alayhi wa Sallam
Great replies everyone for me too it was the spirituality and work done for Islam factor that helped me choose my murshid saying that I just felt that it was the right choice al hamdulilla.
May we all be perfect mureeds and Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala bless our murshids with endless prosperity and long lives ameen.
Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
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Post by muskaan chisti on Nov 1, 2009 22:46:47 GMT
i choose other because there is more than 2 options for me Family Pir o Murshid (for a vey long time )  Knowledge and spirituality of the Pir The Pir has done so much work for Islam I knew the Pir was the right choice for me because you feel the attachment The Pir had so much noor on his face He was a Sayyad |
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Post by muskaan chisti on Nov 1, 2009 22:49:53 GMT
i was recently with hadret allama pir alla uddin saddiqui madazilla alliyah and he said to me 3 things (qualities) make a person a kamil shaykh ilm, amal and ikhlaas find a shaykh who knows his aqeedah, knows shariah and 3rdly has permission in tazkirah ul nafs (ilme tassawuf - sufi ways). A shaykh who is ignorent of his aqaid or the aqaid of ahle sunnah wal jamaat(can name a few so called present day shaykhs) he will not protect you from the hell fire. if he is ignorent of halaal wal haraam he will not be able to guide you away from partaining in actions that are unlawful therefore take you away from the torment of hellfire. if he has no understanding of the purification of the ego he will not be able to protect you from the unconscious shirk of the go. every wali is an alim but not every alim is a wali my pir has all those qualities |
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Post by sanaqshi on Nov 2, 2009 1:50:40 GMT
ma3shalah you are blessed i have been blessed to have met 10 kamaal wali allah in my life time and to take bayah with a wali
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Post by asif trying 2 b rabbani on Nov 2, 2009 14:09:37 GMT
Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa BarakatuhuI firmly beleive that one does not choose his Peer Sahib, rather they choose their mureeds! Subhanallah! I voted other. Tand Seenay Pounda Ay Nazara Mere Peer Da! Fi Aminillah Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu i firmly agree sister spot on |
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Post by bintyhawa on Nov 2, 2009 19:39:08 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhui have chosen knowledge and spirituality of the peer Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
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Post by muskaan chisti on Nov 2, 2009 22:05:12 GMT
Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa BarakatuhuI firmly beleive that one does not choose his Peer Sahib, rather they choose their mureeds! Subhanallah! I voted other. Tand Seenay Pounda Ay Nazara Mere Peer Da! Fi Aminillah Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu i firmly agree sister spot on spot on sister ur rite wata line  |
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Post by Ayesha on Nov 3, 2009 7:05:46 GMT
Wa'alaykum 'Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
subhanallah sis :DI agree wid sister :)so, I voted the other
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
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Post by Sanam1 on Nov 3, 2009 12:31:06 GMT
Assalamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
Good poll I have chosen knowledge and spirituality of the peer too.
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